Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Alice Choo

Here are the Oct 2011 dates (general tong shu dates):

- 08/10, 20/10

Only these 2 dates can be used, rest of the general dates clashes to your/parents.

* Note that this is a bad yr for wedding for groom and rabbit and rooster clash
 


cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Eunie

That date clashes to Rooster, which is none of you. (Siblings not counted).

Hence you can use this date if you looking at general tong shu dates only.

** Note that a good date in the tong shu can still be considered inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible. Tong Shu dates are generic dates for mass consumption only. It does not factor in individual birth data.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi micsih

Auspicious timing for fetch the bride will be 9am-11am

You can use 30/10/2011, 9-11am for Guo da li and 17/11/2011 9-11am for an chuang

Hope this helps
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sugar01

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My wedding date is 21 April 2012. Is it a good date for us? Is it advisable to have wedding on the month of birthday?

Groom: Apr 1986
Bride: Sep 1987

Groom's Father: Goat, 1955
Groom's Mother: Monkey , 1956
Bride's Father: Snake , 1953
Bride's Mother: Monkey, 1956
 

fiifii

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Is 14th Jan 2012 a good date for us?

Groom: 1983 Pig
Bride: 1983 Pig

Groom's Dad: Monkey 1956
Groom's Mum: Cow 1962
Bride's Dad: Monkey 1956
Bride's Mum: Monkey 1956

thanks~
 

houseoflove

New Member
hi Master Tong,

Can i be a jie mei for more than 3 times before i get married? or is 3 times the max?

Can pregnant women attend my wedding?
 

rainz

New Member
Hi Master Tong

My aunty is telling me that is not good to get married (chinese customary) on the 6th month of chinese calendar which is in July.

How true is this?
 

femine85

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My grandpa passed away recently and we now have to get married within 100 days. I have checked with the hotel and the only available date that they have before 100 days is 7 Oct 2011. I would like to know if that is a good date to do the customary.

Groom: 8 Nov 1984 Rat
Bride: 14 Nov 1985 Ox

Groom's Dad: Rat
Groom's Mum: Rat
Bride's Dad: Rabbit
Bride's Mum: Rat

Thank you for your advice!
 

dillydallyvc

New Member
Dear Master Tong,
Please advise which Saturday during March 2012, is good for us. We like 3rd March and the venue's available.

The details are as follows:
Groom: 16 Nov 1972 (RAT)
Groom's Mom: 27 May 1945
Groom's dad: Passed away in 1990 --> Does his details matter?

Bride: 19 Dec 1978 (Horse)
Bride's Mom: 14 Jan 1952
Bride's dad: 5 Jan 1949

Please advise, thanks so much!!
 

dreamz86

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
May I know whether is it a good date for wedding at 17 Nov 2012?

Groom: 26/10/81 Rooster
Groom parent: Tiger

Bride: 1/11/86 Tiger
Bride dad: rat
Bride mom: rabbit

Thanks.
 

eunie

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for you advice.

Could you advise if the ROM date change to 11 Nov 2011 will be good? The one on 20th Nov is clash with groom's siblings.

Groom: Tiger 16 Jul 1986
Bride: Ox 8 May 1985

Groom's dad : Dragon
Groom's mother : Snake

Bride's dad : Rabbit
Bride's mother : Snake

Siblings: Pig, Dragon, Monkey, Rooster

Thank you.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Sugar

That day clash to Horse, which is none of you. But will have to wait till Tong Shu is out to check if it is a general good date or not. Holding it in the birthday month is ok, no problem.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Yiwei

That date clash to Dragon, which is none of you. However, it is not a general tong shu good date for wedding. It can only be used if that date and both your bazi are compatible

Hope his helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi houseoflove,

Can i be a jie mei for more than 3 times before i get married? or is 3 times the max?

>> Yes of course you can.

Can pregnant women attend my wedding?

>> Pregnant women cannot attend any wedding (by right) as there is a clash of luck.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi rainz

That is a superstition that i don't buy. No such thing in feng shui. They say that it is half husband half wife if you do so in 6th lunar mth. Then maybe perhaps you question her which mth is the best then? Likely, they will say 8th or 9th lunar mth. Then isn't that 3/4 husband and wife too? Then doesn't it mean everyone must get married in lunar Dec so that you can have a "full" husband and wife? Hope you get what i mean
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Renee

30/8/2011 clash to Pig, none of you. And is a general tong shu good date. Hence this date is better

** Note that both your Bazi are not taken into consideration yet as a good date in the tong shu can still be considered as inauspicious if the date and the bazi are not compatible
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi DillyDally

3/3/2012 clash to Snake. If any of you is born Snake yr,it cannot be used.

Otherwise will have to wait till the tong shu is out to check if it is a general good date or not. Now the only way to do so will be using bazi to select.

Btw 3/3 is a hot date due to the nice numbers, hence high chance most popular hotels are already not available as it is bit late to book 2012 dates now.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Eunie

11/11 is not a very good date compared to 20/11

Siblings are not taken into consideration, else you will have a hard time finding a good date. They just have to hide during fetch the bride session and cannot be his Xiong Di
 

pearlyc

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you advise whether 6 Oct 2012, 13 Oct 2012 or 3 Nov 2012 are good dates for ROM and customary. Is it advisable to hold the ROM in the evening on the same day as customary?

Groom's zodiac: Rat (1984)
Bride's zodiac: Ox (1985)

Groom's dad zodiac: Snake
Groom's mum zodiac: Snake

Bride's dad zodiac: Dog
Bride's mum zodiac: Rabbit
Siblings zodiac: Dragon, Rooster

Thank you very much!
 

chermaine26

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I'm pretty new to this forum and i hope that i can get advice from you.

I read that you were saying that bcos d tong shu for 2013 is not out so you will calculate base on ba zi, but wad is ba zi? wad info do i need to give? My mum is worried about using ba zi to calculate bcos she say smth like wad if after calculation then realise me and my bf not suitable for each other..

based on the post of other ppl, i just provide you with the similar..

Can you advice on the better dates for our customary cum ROM in OCT 2012 and JAN 2013

Groom: Pig (1983)
Bride: Ox (1985)

Groom's dad: Monkey
Groom's mum: Monkey
Groom's elder sis: Dog

Bride's dad: Tiger
Bride's mum: Rooster
Bride's young bro: Snake

Thanks in advance!!
 

jysy

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can ask if there is any suitable date for 2013 for ROM and customary which hold on the same day.

Groom: 1979
Bride: 1980

Groom's Mum: 1939

Bride's Dad: 1947
Bride's Mum: 1949

Thank You
 

str_ram

New Member
Hi Master Tong,


I'm considering 6 Oct 2012 to be our big day. Is it a good date for us? Or is there any good days for us from Oct to Dec 2012?

Groom: Dog, 1982, nov
Bride: Ox, 1985, apr

Groom's Father: Monkey, 1956
Groom's Mother: Goat, 1955
Bride's Father: Snake, 1953
Bride's Mother: Monkey, 1956

Groom's brothers: 1978 Jul, 1979 Sept, 1991 Jan
Bride's sister: Rooster 1981 Mar

Thank you Master Tong!
 

eunie

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

20/11 is too rush for us as our customary on 19/11 and not in SG.

Could you advise any auspicious day on Saturday in October 2011 can be use for ROM?

Groom: Tiger 16 Jul 1986
Bride: Ox 8 May 1985
Groom's dad : Dragon
Groom's mother : Snake
Bride's dad : Rabbit
Bride's mother : Snake
Siblings: Pig, Dragon, Monkey, Rooster

Appreciate your kind advice. Thanks!
 

peisze

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We have 2 dates in mind for our wedding, there are 2/12/2011 and 15/12/2011. Could you advise ur which day is the best day for us?

Groom : Horse, 28 sep 1978, 6.54pm
Groom's dad : Cow, 19/11/1949
Groom's mum : Dragon, 22/01/1953

Bride : Monkey, 12 July 1980, 1.20am
Bride's dad : Dragon, 31/05/1940
Bride's mum : Rat, 13/11/1948

Thanks for ur advise. Hope to hear from you soon!
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Pearl

6 Oct 2012 does not clash to anyone (clash Horse)

13 Oct 2012 clash Ox, hence cannot be used.

3 Nov 2012 is a super bad date for wedding

Hence only 6th is a "potential" good date. Will have to wait till the tong shu is out to check if it is a general good date or not. Right now, the only way and correct way is to use bazi to calculate the dates. Tong shu is for mass consumption only and not accurate. Bazi date selection are dates selected based on couple's bazi, more "personalised"

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
HI Chermaine Yeo

Bazi is your birthday and time of birth. For Bazi Wedding dates selection, i only use your bazi to select your dates. You are not doing destiny analysis, hence i won't tell you if both of you are compatible or not (that is a separate service anyway).

The tong shu for 2012 & 2013 are not out yet so i can't check for you now till it is out. 2012 tong shu will be out next 2 mths. 2013 tong shu will be out next year 7th mth (i already start to select 2013 dates with effect from this month and by the time the tong shu is out each year, more or less most of the popular hotel weekends date will be long gone)..if you are booking 2012 weekend dates now, it is already very challenging...

btw, the groom is born Pig year,hence 2013 Snake yr is a bad yr for wedding for him, hence you have to do it 2012 or 2014.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Sally

As much as i want to help you in the area of general good dates for year 2013, the Tong Shu for 2013 is not out yet, so i will not know or be able to select general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding for 2013 yet (will be out 2012, 7th lunar month). Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi CHeryl Huang

2012 is Dragon yr and groom is born Dog yr. Dragon and Dog clashes in astrology, hence 2012 is a bad yr for wedding for groom. Ideally it should be held in 2013
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
HI Pei Sze

Both dates are general tong shu good dates and don't clash to anyone. Hence either day is fine.

To check which day is better, based on birth year/tong shu alone cannot tell. U must use Bazi (birthday and time of birth) to select the dates and only thru that, you can tell which is a better date

Hope this helps
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style_attica

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Please kindly advise 11 Mar 2012 will be a good wedding date for us:

Bride: Rooster (1981)
Groom: Dog (1982)

Bride dad: Dragon
Bride mum: Horse

Groom dad: Rabbit
Groom mum: Rooster

Thank you in advance ;)

Btw, May I knw is the tongshu for 2012 will be out?
 

peisze

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

I have stated my time and my htb's birth time on the previous post.

Groom : Horse,
birthday : 28 sep 1978,
birth time : 6.54pm
Bride : Monkey,
birthday : 12 July 1980,
birth time : 1.20am

would you mind to help me to check whether 2/12/2011 or 15/12/2011 is better for us although both day is fine for us. thank you very much >.<
 

pinggoh

New Member
HI Master Tong

May i ask whether which saturday of Oct to Dec is a good date for marriage.

Groom: 31 Jan 1980

Bride: 22 Oct 1981

thanks alot Master.
 

wei97123

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

am thinking of a June weekend for 2012 to hold my customary. 2 Jun (most preferred), 3 Jun, 9 Jun, 10 Jun or 16 Jun. Could I check if these dates are suitable?

Groom: 09 Jan 1977 (Dragon)
Bride: 17 Jun 1979 (Goat)

Groom's Father (deceased): Monkey
Groom's mum: Pig
Groom's elder sis: Tiger

Bride's Father: Rat
Bride's Mother: Pig
Bride's elder bro: Dragon

Thanks in advance.
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stah

New Member
Hi Master Tong. We are planning to ROM in the next 2 months. Any Saturday or Sunday will do. Preferred dates will be 03 sept, 11 sept, 17 sept, 25th sept, 1 oct, 8 oct, 15 oct 2011. Please advise.

Groom: 31 Oct 1984 (Rat)
Bride: 10 Oct 1985 (Ox)

Groom's Father: 1955 Goat
Groom's mum: 1957 Rooster
Groom's younger sis: Dragon

Bride's Father: 1957 Rooster
Bride's Mother: 1955 Goat


Thanks in advance.
 

grc

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can you pls advise whether 12.12.2012, 20.12.2012 are good dates for ROM and customary. Is it advisable to hold the ROM in the evening on the same day as customary?

Groom's zodiac: Rabbit ( 24 Mar 1975)
Bride's zodiac: Rooster ( 04 Mar 1981)

Groom's dad zodiac: Deceased
Groom's mum zodiac: Pig

Bride's dad zodiac: Pig
Bride's mum zodiac: Dragon

Can you pls also advise is there any other date more suitable for us?

Thank you very much!
 

chermaine26

New Member
Hi master tong,

Thanx for ur explanation abt calculation of ba zi.
Are u able to advise if it is an appropriate date on 7th Oct 2012 or 3rd Nov 2012 to perform our customary?

For ur reference..
Groom: Pig (1983)
Bride: Ox (1985)

Groom's dad: Monkey
Groom's mum: Monkey
Groom's elder sis: Dog

Bride's dad: Tiger
Bride's mum: Rooster
Bride's young bro: Snake

Thanks in advance!!
 

willwill

New Member
Dear Master Tong

we are planning our wedding in end 2012. Would you be able to advise if any of the dates below will be a good date to hold our wedding?

16 Sep 2012
7 Oct 2012
21 Oct 2012
28 Oct 2012
3 Nov 2012

Bride: Horse (1978)
Groom: Horse (1978)

Bride dad: Rat
Bride mum: Ox

Groom dad: Dragon
Groom mum: Goat

Thank you in advance.
 

ashgirl

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Can I check if 16/12/12 is a good date?

Bride: Ox (24/04/85)
Groom: Rat (19/10/84)

Groom dad &amp; mum: Dog
Bride mum: Dog

Thanks!
 

sugar01

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

May i know if 19 May 2012 or 23 June 2012, which date is better for us? Is it advisable to get married on one of the dates provided?

Groom: Apr 1986
Bride: Sep 1987

Groom's Father: Goat, 1955
Groom's Mother: Monkey , 1956
Bride's Father: Snake , 1953
Bride's Mother: Monkey, 1956

Thanks!
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Lovekhai

As the groom is born Dog yr, it is a bad yr for wedding for him (Dog and Dragon yr clashes). Ideally it should be held befre Dragon yr in 2011 or 2013.

Otherwise that day doesn't clash to anyone. will have to check the tong shu when out if it is a general good date or not. It will be out sometime next mth

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi steven goh

Which year? If 2012, the tong shu is not out yet. Can only use Bazi to select as of now.

And if 2011, i need all your parents animal signs as well.
 

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