Hi all, need some advice... i am married for 2 years, and my marriage has been good until the last half a year, when my husband started to be so engrossed in work and computer games... i can feel us gradually drifting apart although i won't say our marriage is breaking down yet. then a friend showed me a website that offers to hook me up with someone else who is married, but also unhappy in his marriage. basically the website helps people find relationships outside of their marriage as the solution to the problems in their marriage. i am tempted to use this service and i am not looking for anything dirty, just looking for someone to talk to... but then i wonder whether i am just trying to seek revenge on my husband, or whether it is actually my nature to brush aside problems by looking elsewhere... im confused... can somebody who has been in this kind of situation advice...