hi Coco, my 2 cents worth.
my guess is that u are probably quite 'tired' of your routine..biological clock is ticking...friends start having kids. I think we are abt the same age. I have a sch-going kid and another on the way. Like u, at first we didn't want kids..then we have one...turns out to be such a joy...no doubt there are many changes/challenges, our lives surrounds around our kid. But in return, we experience the kind of joy and love one doesn't get to experience except thru parenthood. I am aware that the trend now is DINK (double income no kids) But really, there is only so many holidays we can take, so many massage sesion we can go. At the end of the day, u will still likely to feel that something is missing. If you can, financially, do try for one, even though your hubby might have problem, it does not u will never have one. It just mean some doctor visits. If u never try, u never know. Saying that, I must say that age is important and biological clock really ticks. My pregnancy this time round is much tougher than the first when I was in my twenties. I have some problems in the 1st trimester, morning sickness last longer, have to go for more tests cos I am above 35 and recently tested to have gestational diabetes. Of course not everyone over 35 has these these symptons. My friend who is of same age just gave birth to her no. 2 without any fuss. It was a breeze for her. Do take time to think abt it. Discuss it with your hubby. Feel free to seek opinion but make decision based on your heart. At the end of the day, it is your choice. Take care.