"When a husband starts lying or telling lies to his wife, is it the end of the marriage?"
No. if the wife stop harping on or choose to feign ignorance. and the husband stop lying or choose to feign repentance...
"Lies like going to work but in fact he didn't, lies like going to a certain place but in fact going to other places etc"
he probably lied out of convenience. save the trouble explaining to u by telling u what u wanna hear...
"I'm really hurt"
well, everybody lies once in a while...
but i would be more frustrated than hurt if my spouse is a habitual liar...
"His truth wouldn't hurt but I don't understand why he's starting to lie."
if the truth doesn't hurt, why bother abt the lie that was used to cover it? and cut the crap on wondering why he's starting to lie... the TRUTH is, u r starting to realise that he lies...