Dear all,
I am abit troubled by my lazy BIL. I have been married for juz 2 mths plus.. he stopped working since cny. since then, he's been staying at home, play games, watch tv, eat, sleep. During cny, while we were busy preparing food for praying and reunion dinner, he simply dont lift his precious fingers to help out. Juz sit there.. watch tv. When dinner was ready, my MIL went to ask him to come n eat.. he juz sit down, eat and go off when finish. NOT even helping to clear the dishes, wash the dishes.
According to my hubby, he's abit slow/low IQ. But not retarded. So.. to me.. its juz plain lazy.. since everybody is doing.. y do I need to do as well???? That's wat I feel on how he think. He's not doing anything, my parents in law/my hubby/me will do it. He doesnt need to do anything.
Then.. 1 thing that I notice was whenever he go toilet.. after he come out.. no water sound.. like the toilet bowl flush/basin water sound.. none at all. And sometimes the toilet really stink of urine smell. And since married, looks like I am the only one washing the toilet. So I told my hubby abt this, but he doesnt smell anything or feel anything wrong. But he will still go and flush and spray the toilet. Last nite.. it happened again. So I asked my hubby to listen.. true enough.. no flush, no water sound. He went to ask him and he said he went to urine. Wat kinda person is that??!! No basic hygenie. He told him off and went to flush and spray the toilet again. haiz.. I am really pissed off with this lazy bum. Dont help to clean up at least dont dirty it. Even my cat (at my mum's place) knows to cover up after done her watever business.
Everybody in the family like treating him as a king.. wat's so great abt him??? I really dont understand. If he's not going to learn, he will nv. And when my PIL are gone, who will look after him? me? no way.. I dont mind looking after the sick. If he is really retarded, I will look after him. But no. He's perfectly normal. Y does a normal person doesnt wanna behave normally?
Even retarded person would learn how to take care of him/her self. We cant depend on other ppl to look after u for the rest of ur life isnt it? Ppl struggle juz to earn that bit to survive.. yet.. he's juz wasting resources. I juz wanted to vent out my anger..
I am abit troubled by my lazy BIL. I have been married for juz 2 mths plus.. he stopped working since cny. since then, he's been staying at home, play games, watch tv, eat, sleep. During cny, while we were busy preparing food for praying and reunion dinner, he simply dont lift his precious fingers to help out. Juz sit there.. watch tv. When dinner was ready, my MIL went to ask him to come n eat.. he juz sit down, eat and go off when finish. NOT even helping to clear the dishes, wash the dishes.
According to my hubby, he's abit slow/low IQ. But not retarded. So.. to me.. its juz plain lazy.. since everybody is doing.. y do I need to do as well???? That's wat I feel on how he think. He's not doing anything, my parents in law/my hubby/me will do it. He doesnt need to do anything.
Then.. 1 thing that I notice was whenever he go toilet.. after he come out.. no water sound.. like the toilet bowl flush/basin water sound.. none at all. And sometimes the toilet really stink of urine smell. And since married, looks like I am the only one washing the toilet. So I told my hubby abt this, but he doesnt smell anything or feel anything wrong. But he will still go and flush and spray the toilet. Last nite.. it happened again. So I asked my hubby to listen.. true enough.. no flush, no water sound. He went to ask him and he said he went to urine. Wat kinda person is that??!! No basic hygenie. He told him off and went to flush and spray the toilet again. haiz.. I am really pissed off with this lazy bum. Dont help to clean up at least dont dirty it. Even my cat (at my mum's place) knows to cover up after done her watever business.
Everybody in the family like treating him as a king.. wat's so great abt him??? I really dont understand. If he's not going to learn, he will nv. And when my PIL are gone, who will look after him? me? no way.. I dont mind looking after the sick. If he is really retarded, I will look after him. But no. He's perfectly normal. Y does a normal person doesnt wanna behave normally?
Even retarded person would learn how to take care of him/her self. We cant depend on other ppl to look after u for the rest of ur life isnt it? Ppl struggle juz to earn that bit to survive.. yet.. he's juz wasting resources. I juz wanted to vent out my anger..