What has your lot 44.5 got to do with me, watchful? Oh yea, I used to do lesbian sex but not anymore...any one wants to tell my fortune here?
I seriously think if you're not into 'lots' or fortune telling, just get the hell out of here...they are many firm believers and they don't need you to mess things up here...some of you are so 'old' yet immature, pretending you're some expert to mock at those who are firm believers.
I want to go to Guan Yin temple n ask for a qian. I understand that i can't ask d same qn twice. Does tis also mean that i can't ask d same qn on two different occasion? For eg, lets say i hav a bf now n i ask for qian to ask if we will get married. Then if 1 yr down d road we breakup n i get another bf, does it mean that i can't ask d same qn (on whether my 2nd bf n i will get married) n get a qian since i asked d same qn a year ago?
If fortune telling is so accurate, the fortune tellers might as well tell their own fortune. Then they will not need to be fortune tellers.
If the "qian" told you that you will get married but 1 year later, you still don't get married, so meaning the "qian" is not trustworthy. Then why bother to ask the "qian" same question 1 year later with another bf. It is not going to be accurate.
I may not ask the qian after all, cos my friend say that if you dun plan to follow, then dun do. I dun wan to follow (ie, keep asking for the qian)....it will be like me being dependent on the qian. I dun wan to live my life like that....I rather live my best everyday and see what comes.
"I may not ask the qian after all, cos my friend say that if you dun plan to follow, then dun do. I dun wan to follow (ie, keep asking for the qian)....it will be like me being dependent on the qian. I dun wan to live my life like that....I rather live my best everyday and see what comes."
But, u r dependent on what your friend tells u. Think about that. Better to not simply be influenced by things you see or hear from different people. Use them as references only. Take it with a pitch of salt. Make your own judgement and be confident about it. Information is completely neutral, it is dependent on how you process it. Your friend is right if you are one that is unable to handle the information overload. Then, better don't ask and check.
bp, u remind me very much of my mother in law. She is very troubled all of the time over worries and limitations she imposed on herself because of what others tell her. And, she impose them to us. When we disagreed and ask her why, she doesn't know the reason herself. She just doesn't feel comfortable not complying to what her friends and relatives advise her 'out of good will'. Frankly, if they knew how much trouble and worries it causes, its not goodwill anymore.
You create your own problem and worry and need to ask. The more you ask, the more trouble you will find. Its all self imposed.
Take control of your own life. You can ask whoever you want maybe for purpose of getting opinions from different angles (even from the angle of the "qian"). But ultimate decision lies on you. Don't just follow wholesale whatever others tell you. What if different people tell your opposing views, you still have to decide yourself.
If one tells you must listen to "qian", another tells you don't listen to "qian", so how? Judge it yourself to listen or not to listen.
Hi Milo, SM and Jenny, u know what, since young I have been following what my mum says, and I am so used to her giving me instructions and advise that I can't make my own decisions (Jenny and SM: see the topic on 'mum does not appreciate me' to see my story). it is not that I can't make my own decisions. I am afraid of making my own decisions cos I am just not used to making my own decisions.
Right now, my mum still tries to 'interfere' and make decisions for me. and she makes me feel very uncomfortable and guilty if I dun follow her decision.
SM, I did not know that asking Guan Yin using the divination lot involves having to follow.
Right now as I try to be independent, I still feel fear as I try to make my own decisions.
It is like,trying to take a step forward, but feeling scare simply cos I am not used to it.
Bt it does not mean that I dun wan to have a mind of my own, or that I dun wan to take control of my life. I want to. Just that I feel like I am struggling right now as I try to take the first step. I am not giving up tho. I am taking in everyone's advice here but I know I have to stand on my own feet and have my own views, make my own decision and move forward with it.
I have a mother that can't wait to give everyone around her instructions all of the time too. She has an opinion of simply everything all of the time. However, I took charge of my life. If you allow her to run all over you, its you that face all the consequence. Its no one else but your call. I'm not asking you to rebell against your mother. Instead, learn to cope and manage others better. Don't you need to abide to what others tell you. Don't just try to be independent. BE INDEPENDENT. Take charge, make your own decision and face the consequences anyway. Shit happens in life. You just have to get the best outcome from it.
If you are not comfortable to talk abt your mum in a forum, pm me.
Don't be princess. Take the first step and not afraid to fall down. å¤±è´¥ä¹ƒæ˜¯æˆåŠŸä¹‹æ¯. Only when you have fallen down once, then you know the pain. Only when you have tasted failure and strive for success will you appreciate the sweetness of success. So don't be afraid to fall, but learn from the fall and strive to stand without falling again. Humans are borne not knowing how to walk. But if you are afraid to fall down and not try taking baby steps followed by bigger steps, till now, you will still not be able to walk.
There is no model answers to all situation. No one is always right. Same goes for your mum. Can listen but not necessarily everything complies.
ya, but actually instead of asking guanyin for each guy u meet one by one, why not just ask guanyin send one right guy to u? i think it's easier also, saves alot of trouble and guanyin can also concentrate on other issues that other pple are facing.
think u better ask early for this, else later the guy she intends for u, meets someone else on facebook. then u might have to wait til he divorces in another 4yrs before u can finally be together by Divine Intervention. and if the wife is evil or linked with the snake spirit, then your battle could take years.
this kind of things i try to ask early, Heaven's intentions are often disrupted by humans, and once it happens, they cannot really intervene.
Hi Ting Yi i knw Powder has no ill intentions bt i wuz juz wondering wat he meant in his last post. I knw he meant well n do understand his interpretation of lot no. 24.
But u knw wat...at my age i feel disheartened tat at my age i hav yet to meet d right guy. At 33 it will b v difficult to get a bf. It makes me discouraged tat i may hav to turn to SDN (Social Development Network) or even join so much activities b4 i can even hav d chance of finding d right man.
Actually powder, it is not abt pride. It is abt fear connected to reality. In reality u see couples all around u. For me, all my frens r attached n some r married w kids. Who will want a 33 yr old woman? Do u knw how emotionally tiring will it b for me to attend single activities or attend activities knowing tt i will b unlikely to find a guy at my age?
Especially when u add d fact tt i m all alone w v little frens. Yes i knw i hav to widen my circle of frens bt when i see myself as having v little frens plus such a difficult mom it disheartens me when i knw i hav to put in effort to find a man all by myself. I can't take yet another journey of finding d right man when i feel all so alone n vulnerable...yes i hav tob independent bt when dealing w finding d right guy at such a age things can seem daunting.