laundry_woes > No worries, I can feel your strong emotional sadness. “amt of time u spend trying to let go of a relationship doesn't reflect how much u love tat person”, this vary from individuals and whether are u able to open up and spend more time with friends and family. Look on the bright side and hope everything works out for u well soon.
miko2006 > Somehow I know how u feels because I went through it too … even thought of committing suicide at that time, glad I didn’t. Especially when I think back about the memorable time we spend together, makes me felt sad and moody. Time is the medicine and I always believe that.
“For my case, my hubby has given up - i know i shld let it go ...but before doing so, isn't putting in my best to salvage till the time, my HEART tell me to stop doing is the BEST TIME”, I am totally being touched by your words. Can sense your perseverance love towards your hubby. I will pray for u, no matter how’s the outcome.
†PoWd3rFuL☆ > Pardon me for saying this, each individuals have different ways and pace to heal from their “wounds”. I must say that u are a very strong willed person who have a clear-cut mentality as to what is right and what is wrong. Though what u said really make sense but “zhong yan ni er”, uncomfortable words are hard to hear. I understand your message, “1 tight slap and hope she can wake up”, not effective in her case bah.
