verysadguy
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Are there anybody here who are in the same dilemma as me? I am married for close to 3 years. I do not know if I want any kids. My wife said that she does not want any kids but I am struggling mentally between having kids or not having kids.
I want kids because I think it completes a marriage and at least when I am old, there are somebody who can take care of me.
At the same time, I feel very tired everyday and got a lot of things that I wish to do. I love to analyse stocks, read newspaper, keep myself updated with the latest news and technology. Somehow, I feel that having kids would stop me from doing all these things and makes me even more tired.
Then again, if in the future, I wants kids, it may be too late already so I am in a dilemma. Anybody here has gone through the same things as me and what is your final decision?
I want kids because I think it completes a marriage and at least when I am old, there are somebody who can take care of me.
At the same time, I feel very tired everyday and got a lot of things that I wish to do. I love to analyse stocks, read newspaper, keep myself updated with the latest news and technology. Somehow, I feel that having kids would stop me from doing all these things and makes me even more tired.
Then again, if in the future, I wants kids, it may be too late already so I am in a dilemma. Anybody here has gone through the same things as me and what is your final decision?