Can I know how was your ROM like? Did you all march in? Did you all get to discuss with him how you wanna do it, he is indeed punctual, until there is no time to discuss anything, I was discussing is it okay for me to march in, cos we wanted, he asked me to get chairs for fathers, which I did(yes the bride do it herself)and my hubby also quickily ran to the behind and get one. Before we could get ready, he spoke out loud to get my guests sitted and told the 2 of us to sit down as well, HELLO, I said We wanna march in, I thought we can take a min to discuss about it, the moment we sat down, he started !! My photographer also know the flow and he also got very shock, i still remember after a while, photographer was taking pics, he even asked him if he has taken enough cos he wanna start! At the end, we didn't get to march in, photographer missed some shot as he is real fast and guess what, my ring bearer was the pathetic one, we were suppose to march in and stand while we were saying "I do" thingy, ended up my back facing my guests, Mr.Chan took the ring pillow from my ring bearer and he was the one who took the ring out from the ribbon!! We were at Fairy Inc's the day before learning how to tie the ring onto the pillow and how to remove it, we have been practising and ended up, it was him that took it out and he even took the wrong one, both of us got the wrong one! can you imagine that! There is no smile in all the photos, there was even one taken whereby I was smiling at him, shooking hand and he is busying (facing down). I really don't know if this call professional or I am too picky? Why me? Our first time meeting with him was not a very pleasant one, but hubby said I too sensative and when I said he never smile, hubby said, I have my way to make him smile,obviously he failed.
For those who interested to know what happened during the first meeting.
He gave us the ideas that we are way too young to get married, why so early? even remind my husband if I am the one he is marrying, frankly speaking, I felt offended. We may look young but marriage is something BIG for us. We have thought about this and we really wanna go ahead with it. He is a really serious man and if you guys prefer a serious one can consider him.
Put yourself in my shoes and think again, i really very upset over my ROM thingy.
I am not here to talk bad about him, that's why I didn't wanna say all these out here. But if you all wanna know, here are the answers. I will still hope ALL YOUR ROM turn out to be good, like daphne and assirac, I also wanna said out loud that I am very happy with my rom but just too bad. I wanna share with you all this just to prepare, something good to you may not good to others. I will let the other to decide, of cause can engage him but just be prepared, if couples are like us, happy go lucky, always laugh, i will said both me and hubby are like those super young sweet couple. Mr. Chan is really not suitable to solemnize our ROM. just my 2 cents.
