I have been with my current bf for more then a year. At the start of our relationship, my bf has been talking to me about marriage and all. He's a divorcee and currently still under separation with his wife. He is 33 and i am 24 this year.
Everything was fine and perfect for nearly 9 months till he left for a business trip to China. He met a girl there and had a relationship with her. Upon his return, he carried on this long distant relationship with her for nearly a month before calling it quits. I decide to give him another chance for his mistake. He has been staying with me for more then half a year already.
Upon his return from China, he started work in a pub. Things didnt improve therefore. He started knowing new girls. I saw texts from girls calling him baby these kind of stuffs. When I confronted him, he says its his friend using his phone. Which i dont believe of cuz. And recently, he brought a girl to Batam for a overnight trip. The girl admitted that they had sexual relationship thrice but they are not together. I did confront him on this issue as i saw the message that he sent her, saying he miss doing it with her etc. And he said he did not do anything with her at all. Of cuz,i knew he was lying.
Everytime when we touch on such issues, he will blow up and say that i invaded his privacy by checking his phone. He says he's very tired as he has to work day and night. Need to settle some financial issues. And all he wants is a small woman. I know it isnt right to check his stuffs. But i cant help it. He always said he loved me and wanted us to get married. But doing such things to me, this isnt love at all.
Is it worth it to even give him a last chance? I know things will never change and he will still continue doing such things behind my back.
Everything was fine and perfect for nearly 9 months till he left for a business trip to China. He met a girl there and had a relationship with her. Upon his return, he carried on this long distant relationship with her for nearly a month before calling it quits. I decide to give him another chance for his mistake. He has been staying with me for more then half a year already.
Upon his return from China, he started work in a pub. Things didnt improve therefore. He started knowing new girls. I saw texts from girls calling him baby these kind of stuffs. When I confronted him, he says its his friend using his phone. Which i dont believe of cuz. And recently, he brought a girl to Batam for a overnight trip. The girl admitted that they had sexual relationship thrice but they are not together. I did confront him on this issue as i saw the message that he sent her, saying he miss doing it with her etc. And he said he did not do anything with her at all. Of cuz,i knew he was lying.
Everytime when we touch on such issues, he will blow up and say that i invaded his privacy by checking his phone. He says he's very tired as he has to work day and night. Need to settle some financial issues. And all he wants is a small woman. I know it isnt right to check his stuffs. But i cant help it. He always said he loved me and wanted us to get married. But doing such things to me, this isnt love at all.
Is it worth it to even give him a last chance? I know things will never change and he will still continue doing such things behind my back.