Is He/She Married?


New Member
Hi All,
Would appreciate if anyone could help me with "How to check if someone is already married?"
I read that it is possible to check through the ROM website? I logged on to the web and saw that there is only a marriage records section, whereby I need to provide my own IC number etc. And that they will send a duplicate copy of the marrigage cert to me. But i dont need the cert. Just want to know whether the person is married... is that the only way to check? Or I am on the wrong page.

Your advice greatly appreciated.

Thank you.


New Member
Thank you Memories03.
Oh, is our identity kept confidential when we request the information? Because I wouldnt want the person I'm checking on to know that I'm checking on him. I was thinking of engaging a PI to do it instead.

What do you think?


New Member
why need to check? just ask money.
u can tell if he is lying straight away when he reply u. ..uh..


New Member
ark: u cant tell if a person is lying anot sometimes..

ashley: i think the person will not know.. if u wan , call up ROM centre and check if them... hiring a PI is quite exp ..


New Member
Hi Ashley

If the person intends to lie, he will lie even if you probe. Yet there are some fellow who give excuses like 'You never ask if I was married.' Lame but it's true.

Hiring a PI is ex. In fact there are tell tale signs such as:
he never give you his residential tel no
he never brings you home or meet his parents/relatives
he never call at specific timing eg. night or weekends
he's always busy these timing

That was how I found out years ago. But if your bf works shift hours or he's a foreigner like Malaysian, it's pretty hard to track.