yuki, i learn to realise that our pre-occupation is the wedding but not so for guys, cos they have too many other things to do so they dun focus as much attention as we do, if u agree wif me. it's not that they are not interested but they dunno and dun have time to do 'research' like us, like now...haha. so what i did was to look ard, narrow down and present my ideas, then u get a better chance of getting some response and counter suggestions.
aiya, i shop ard and merge the design of 3 beds into one, choosing the color of the laminate that i think will fit into my wallpaer, that's all. but really enjoyed it. happy to see the end result.
i din shop ard too much for mattress so dunno what's good. got fr ikea cos we are gonna be away for 3 years after the wedding, so dunno what will happen to the mattress, get a cheap one so that if it turns mouldy, u wun feel the pinch.