lost_n_sad
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Me and my husband had been together for 13 years and marriage for 6 years.
In the 3rd years of our marriage he told me he is in love with someone else and wanted to leave me. I was heart broken, and never see this coming at all. Everyone was surprise. Because he is like a big baby, he will look for me all the time. And we are stuck to each other like shadow to each other.
But I still let him go and he had sign the Deeds of Separation. Then within weeks he changed his mind, and say he wanted to be with me. (that time I did not sign the DOS) So I let him move home. Only a few of my best friends and his family know about this affair.
But one year later, there is some women knocking at my door say he had cheated their sister. I was so sad, but he told me he got nothing to do with that woman. Only that woman like him, he rejected her, that is why she come to our house. I had no choice but to keep quiet.
But within week he bought another woman home she was the one he choice to leave me a year ago. And she is 5th month pregnant and chase out by her family. I had no choice but to let her stay with us and take care of her. And all these was keep from everyone. But at later part before she give birth she moved and stay with his family. He don¡¯t want to divorce me say he make mistake and he don¡¯t want to marriage the 3rd party
And we thought all this will let him learn his lesson.
Now the baby is 14th month old, and history happened again. He is having affair again, this time round he had it with 2 women. And he go around telling ppl he is legally separated. And these women say they don¡¯t mind as long he spend time and money on them.
He will come home at 10-11pm every night and tell me there is no other woman. But he get angry with everything I say or do, and make me feel small.
Within a month I had lost 8kg and I had lost interest in everything in life. I just hide at home don¡¯t dare to meet ppl or even to talk on phone with anyone. I just worry I may lost myself and cry infront of my friends and family.
I want a divorce but he keep say he love me, he can¡¯t live without me.
I want to ask him to give me the house, but I am not working. All my saving was spend on him. I don¡¯t dare to tell my friends or family about all these. Because the last affair, I had see how hurt my friends are. I know they really love me and want me to be happy.
I want to get everything done then face up to those who love me with a new strong me. But I don¡¯t know where to start.
In the 3rd years of our marriage he told me he is in love with someone else and wanted to leave me. I was heart broken, and never see this coming at all. Everyone was surprise. Because he is like a big baby, he will look for me all the time. And we are stuck to each other like shadow to each other.
But I still let him go and he had sign the Deeds of Separation. Then within weeks he changed his mind, and say he wanted to be with me. (that time I did not sign the DOS) So I let him move home. Only a few of my best friends and his family know about this affair.
But one year later, there is some women knocking at my door say he had cheated their sister. I was so sad, but he told me he got nothing to do with that woman. Only that woman like him, he rejected her, that is why she come to our house. I had no choice but to keep quiet.
But within week he bought another woman home she was the one he choice to leave me a year ago. And she is 5th month pregnant and chase out by her family. I had no choice but to let her stay with us and take care of her. And all these was keep from everyone. But at later part before she give birth she moved and stay with his family. He don¡¯t want to divorce me say he make mistake and he don¡¯t want to marriage the 3rd party
And we thought all this will let him learn his lesson.
Now the baby is 14th month old, and history happened again. He is having affair again, this time round he had it with 2 women. And he go around telling ppl he is legally separated. And these women say they don¡¯t mind as long he spend time and money on them.
He will come home at 10-11pm every night and tell me there is no other woman. But he get angry with everything I say or do, and make me feel small.
Within a month I had lost 8kg and I had lost interest in everything in life. I just hide at home don¡¯t dare to meet ppl or even to talk on phone with anyone. I just worry I may lost myself and cry infront of my friends and family.
I want a divorce but he keep say he love me, he can¡¯t live without me.
I want to ask him to give me the house, but I am not working. All my saving was spend on him. I don¡¯t dare to tell my friends or family about all these. Because the last affair, I had see how hurt my friends are. I know they really love me and want me to be happy.
I want to get everything done then face up to those who love me with a new strong me. But I don¡¯t know where to start.