i am in mid 20s so is my husband. Recently i found out that he is having an office affair. Dating and hold hands. Not to the stafe of intimacy yet. Had confronted him and he does not want to end the affair. I am puzzle. I do not know what I can do. They are texting every now and then. She knew that I knew but is not ending. She is married and still have boyfriend out there. Thought of divorce but unable to let go. Currently pregnant and I have two kids. We have been together for 8 years. Married for 3. We had always been quarreling but we know its fine because of our character. Right now I dont know what to do to end this. Thought of alerting the lady spouse but had promise my husband that i will not disturb their life and wrecking someone marriage is so not me. They are office colleagues and my husband admit that she caught his eyes. They started officially half a month ago. He feels that I am irritating. But he treat me so near yet so far make me confuse. However, we still have intimacy. Why? Because he cant get it from that girl? Or because he still wants me. I am confused. Neither did he give me an answer that whether does he love the girl or me. Can someone help me. I am scare i want to save this marriage but i really dunno how.