Hi All,
A few months ago i have bought a house with my bf and the agreement was the parent + bro will stay with me until his bro bto hse was ready and they will move to his hse.
But when we eventually move in the bro gf come along and also treat my hse as her.
All along i already dislike her and it got worse when she stay with me
1st incident - when my hse is doing renovation she comment that the room was so small for her to put things i am super pissed off and my bf ask his mum to go and tell the bro gf off
2nd incident - During cny my family come over my hse and when she saw them she just walk into the room without even saying hi to them and showing 1 kind of attitude. I feel really angry as they are my family and that is my house but you are showing them that they are not being welcome. When my bf talk to her about this she comment that she don't know my family but please lor this is basic manner.
3rd incident - got 1 time i was quite sick for a few weeks and alway sleep quite early instead of being considerate they use speaker to watch dvd and on the voice damn loud.
4tn incident - when buying my hse toilet accessories i bought a metal rod for them to hang their towel but end up is only enough to hang 3 towels. So meaning my bf bro and parent hanging and the gf bought 2 hook to hang her towel. There was once i was inisde kitchen cooking things and she was hanging her towel. When my bf bro ask her if she can hang? she comment " What to do? this is call human must change due to environment".
This is really my limit already. I feel you keep hiam my hse and say all this rubish why don't you move out? Everytime i want confront her my bf and his parent will say they settle but it seems she take for granted and never keep her mind clear that she was staying at my hse.
I really cannot stand her and ask her to go back her hse and guess what? she say she got no hse to go back because her parent is getting divorce and selling their hse away. But she got a bro and i dun think is right for her parent to just dump her at our hse and become our responsibilities.
Now i am really sian lor she dun wan to go back and i cannot stand seeing her. Now just by hearing her voice it already make me damn pissed off. I got the feeling like i as the owner got no right to choose who to stay my hse at all. I feel myself so useless now.
A few months ago i have bought a house with my bf and the agreement was the parent + bro will stay with me until his bro bto hse was ready and they will move to his hse.
But when we eventually move in the bro gf come along and also treat my hse as her.
All along i already dislike her and it got worse when she stay with me
1st incident - when my hse is doing renovation she comment that the room was so small for her to put things i am super pissed off and my bf ask his mum to go and tell the bro gf off
2nd incident - During cny my family come over my hse and when she saw them she just walk into the room without even saying hi to them and showing 1 kind of attitude. I feel really angry as they are my family and that is my house but you are showing them that they are not being welcome. When my bf talk to her about this she comment that she don't know my family but please lor this is basic manner.
3rd incident - got 1 time i was quite sick for a few weeks and alway sleep quite early instead of being considerate they use speaker to watch dvd and on the voice damn loud.
4tn incident - when buying my hse toilet accessories i bought a metal rod for them to hang their towel but end up is only enough to hang 3 towels. So meaning my bf bro and parent hanging and the gf bought 2 hook to hang her towel. There was once i was inisde kitchen cooking things and she was hanging her towel. When my bf bro ask her if she can hang? she comment " What to do? this is call human must change due to environment".
This is really my limit already. I feel you keep hiam my hse and say all this rubish why don't you move out? Everytime i want confront her my bf and his parent will say they settle but it seems she take for granted and never keep her mind clear that she was staying at my hse.
I really cannot stand her and ask her to go back her hse and guess what? she say she got no hse to go back because her parent is getting divorce and selling their hse away. But she got a bro and i dun think is right for her parent to just dump her at our hse and become our responsibilities.
Now i am really sian lor she dun wan to go back and i cannot stand seeing her. Now just by hearing her voice it already make me damn pissed off. I got the feeling like i as the owner got no right to choose who to stay my hse at all. I feel myself so useless now.