"How do you know that my situation and grudges' are too far-stretched? Strange? I don't even know and how could you? Just because of the statements I quoted?"
- you gave us a brief account of your story, and you tried to use that as a guideline for grudges' story - on that part, i was trying to say that your "frustrated emotions" might be similar but i did mention that it was too simplistic to judge solely based on those emotions. Because every life story could be different, as evident in grudges' as compared to yours.
Are you telling me now that there are other untold parts in your story - which might be similar to grudges, and i'm too quick to reply? If that's the case, please elaborate further.
"Did my needle prick you to a certain point? You seem to be so work-up from there. If it's really so, I can't stop you from feeling so."
- i believe i made my point on that already, and for the last time, i'm not angered by your needle theory. Please don't question me anymore.
"How could you catch no ball of my saying? You so wise. It's just that you don't wish to catch because you think very differently only.
Btw, if you are so sensitive over my 'in-sensitive phrase', too bad. Everyone has their different level of sensitivity, I can't satisfy all. To refrain from using it freely in such topics next time? Let me think about it. Maybe yes, maybe no. It's the same what; I can't simply ask you not to be so aggressive next time, it's your way of writing, I can't stop you."
- it is getting difficult to exchange views as you are making no sense in reply to my posts.
Tell us honestly, do you really feel that making a mockery of someone's unfortunate background (ie.financially or in this topic - that bro's gf) is really FINE, considering all aspects?
Ever occured to you that the name-calling was in your very first post? Had you factor in other bits and pieces of the whole puzzle, i think you might be less Enthusiastic on that.
Don't blardy hell come and tell me that i don't catch your freaking "begger" name-calling on other people, because i am trying to act blur or act wise..... don't try to use that stupid twist onto me, it doesn't work.
"Oh not forgetting about your question? If I choose B, will you think I'm contradicting? Perhaps, I should choose C just to satisty your confirmation that I'm really that type of ppl."
- Come on... it's just a simple illustration, and you're trying to smoke your way through?? For once, can you please be objectively truthful and read posts (or situations) as it is, and not create an escape route for yourself?
"Last but not least. I did not advise grudges not to give that gal a timeline and neither did I advise her not to too. So, I dunno how you have got the idea from. Mmm... maybe it's due to the fact that since I did not suggest it personally over here ow how I wrote, I'm asking her to kick her out immediately? Anyway, it's your own derivation, what can I say?
Ah! I better pen it down. I agree to what you have said, to give the gal a timeline, to understand her situation and so forth. DOn't get me wrong, I sincerely agree with you. To compromise and make everyone's life better. Am I now considered a hypocrite?"
- For god's sake, my perspective ie. like those last few lines dated on Friday, March 27, 2009 - 6:00 pm...... it was more for grudges' situation, but never about some silly accusations that you should advise this or that.
IF you read without your defensive mechanism, i only have had issues with your "begger" name-calling and the needle theory... and never about those parts whereby you talked about your life story and experience
Nor should i expect that you agree with me. But, may i request that if you disagree, please reply objectively.
You're just trying too hard to rebuke me for the sake of it, but without sufficient reasoning or facts.