Hi.Juz want to share my experience.I always believe there's a guy out there for every gal.I broke up with my ex 5 months b4 i 'met' my hubby.I was living in australia.a gf(who's also s'porean) & I decided to join SDU for fun.juz to find out abt the kind of guys in s'pore.We had a good laugh coz they all look so geeky.
one day,i went into the chatroom & met my hubby.so we started chatting abt very general things.he later revealed to me that he was given coporate membership & that was the 1st time he was logging into the chatroom.i had a look at his profile & tot he was pretty decent.tall,dar,ok looking,decent career.we had something in common.we both studied in australia.he came back to s'pore,i was still living there.
We continued to chat for abt 1 month.he then asked me to go out.BUT i was in australia!never did i once tell him i was in australia & not s'pore! haha.kind of deveiced him.but he was cool abt it.he even asked for my no. in australia & rang me.we started chatting every night,ringing each other,sms-ing etc.
2 months later,i decided to fly home for 1 week to meet him.I fell for him even b4 i met him.strange,considering i never tot online dating could work.after meeting him,i took the painful decision to give up everything in australia to come back.i reckon that w/o being physically here,the relationship would never work.
to cut short the story,abt 2 yrs later,he proposed in australia.it was 1 of the best moments of my life.
moral of the story: there's a guy for every gal.i believe it's fate that we 'met'.never be disheartened.someone special will pop out unknowingly & when u least expect it.