Hi all, i have an issue that needs all your advice please!
I'm a newly wed, but i feel that my husband is not into sex at all. My husband's a first year doctor, and works pretty long hours. We barely hit once a week, i've tried many ways to improve our sex life but there just isnt improvement. I wouldn't say i look like a diva but i've been praised for having a good figure and above average pretty with a good fashion sense.
Recently i've tried to get us both in bed by 10pm (we usually sleep by 11 or 1130pm) so we can have some quality time together but i still find it not working. He doesn't seem to be interested in my body at all and when we get intimate, we are just doing the deed and he doesnt try to touch me at all. im embarrassed to say the least but i really want to know what is going on. I simply do not feel that i am desirable to him but am sure i am more than attractive to men. He is definitely also not having an affair, at least not for now. I know he still loves me but this part of our marriage is really affecting me and i feel terrible, to the extent i wake up in the middle of the night crying.
i am not particularly horny or what but i just crave for my man to at least feel a little lust for me. it seems like he has none. i've tried confronting him but till now i havent really gotten any clear answer from him. he doesnt have any medical issue either as he has no problem getting hard and ejaculating.
Is anyone having similar issues like me??
I'm a newly wed, but i feel that my husband is not into sex at all. My husband's a first year doctor, and works pretty long hours. We barely hit once a week, i've tried many ways to improve our sex life but there just isnt improvement. I wouldn't say i look like a diva but i've been praised for having a good figure and above average pretty with a good fashion sense.
Recently i've tried to get us both in bed by 10pm (we usually sleep by 11 or 1130pm) so we can have some quality time together but i still find it not working. He doesn't seem to be interested in my body at all and when we get intimate, we are just doing the deed and he doesnt try to touch me at all. im embarrassed to say the least but i really want to know what is going on. I simply do not feel that i am desirable to him but am sure i am more than attractive to men. He is definitely also not having an affair, at least not for now. I know he still loves me but this part of our marriage is really affecting me and i feel terrible, to the extent i wake up in the middle of the night crying.
i am not particularly horny or what but i just crave for my man to at least feel a little lust for me. it seems like he has none. i've tried confronting him but till now i havent really gotten any clear answer from him. he doesnt have any medical issue either as he has no problem getting hard and ejaculating.
Is anyone having similar issues like me??