Hb and porn, pls advice

naeco

New Member
Hi. My hb and I had been married for 3 yrs plus. Shortly After our marriage, I discovered that he has been watching porn, worse Still at his work place. I shared my concern that I’m not comfortable with that, but we could watch it together. Why would anyone watch it at work? I can’t understand

He promised me that he won’t do it again. 2 yrs later, recently I found him looking at manga porn. He was on his desktop but quickly deleted his history when I enter the room. I asked a few times but he doesn’t admit until later on. I felt very sad that he broke his promise and he lied to me. It is not the first time he lied to me, including other matters. And I have already shared many times not to tell me lie. It just make me feel that it’s hard to trust him. He said he’s just reading the porn for The fun of reading and to get a few ideas to rekindle our sex life. I don’t know whether to believe him or not.

right now we are not on v gd term due to this incident. I felt like really distant from him. And our future so bleak tgt

pls advise if I think too much or if this is not a big deal?
 

Sexy Lady

New Member
Hi lady, how are you getting on with your hubby?

Nowadays porn videos are easily accessed from the internet. Some people enjoy watching porn to release stress or just to satisfy their desire or out of curiosity. I believe there are some newly-wed watching porn together. When we are younger we tend to have higher sex drive but when we get older our desire will be reduced.

Don't let this affect your marriage provided you caught him cheating on you. When he gets tired of watching porn he will watch lesser or even stop watching totally.

Keep him busy with housework or kids. Go for shopping or exercise with him will get his mind off.
 

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