Care to share whats your age? No matter what age, its still possible to find new relationship after divorce or break up right?Sounds like me...but in this sequence, divorced, cheated on and now in a new rs. Can't say found true love yet...still new.
nowadays i just keep a positive mindset. easier to live life with a positive mindset.
Can encourage your gf come here post her story?
Can encourage your gf come here post her story?
Lol Infernolord and his gf is like golden couple if we double date look like old uncle auntie next to him.Wah.....you should meet up with infernolord and his gf. go on double date.
Hmm does it mean we had to close two eyes and let married men stray w no repercussions or let the condo owners rent out to pimps? Let the pimps go scott free wout paying taxes? Just feel like creating some havoc in that website to mess up their businesses
A little insensitive but true sadly
Not all cases are due to wives not giving intimacies. Many also because they got tempted by reading reviews and looking at the pics. The forums made it so easy to stray and not get caught, so the guys are tempted. The wives can never satify the "newness" and " different women, diff bodies, different look, different feel" that those prostitutes provide.
Of course not all men enjoy prostitutes. There are some who didnt get it from wives, there are some who got it from wives but still looking for fun, and there are some like you who wouldnt enjoy from prostitutes even if didnt get from wives. If you read up those reviews, then maybe you would get the feel that they dont even feel guilty. Sometimes its not even the need, its that they do enjoy it, its not something that wives can provide them if variety and thrill of secrecy is what they are looking for.
I'll let him tell the story if he wants.
You give in to your husband to be more or the other way?
I didn't think of this question before but now that you asked...
I am still unsure who gives in to whom more but both do it on different things
3 things he give in to you the last is a big thing.
He doesn't give in to you so you count as you give in to him? Lol
Except he does give in just not all the time so you count as you give in?
He gives in.
If you not sure it's probably he give in y
To you lah
Nothing wrong, you both happy Liao...
). He was receptive of my previous encounter and treated me with respect despite my flaws. We went through a period of conflicts as well but both of us are willing to listen and talk it out to resolve it which makes the r/s meaningful. I was glad that my previous r/s ended as it would have turned for the worst. I couldn't have imagine what I would have become. 
I agreed on you.. Start loving urself den u can love someone else. So trueErm.. Hope this story is an positive inspiration to all.
I was in a r/s for over 7 years with a guy. We started during poly days and stayed together throughout his NS period.
In this r/s, I was never good enough for him to show to his family and friends as I am not "improving" myself (e.g. makeup and dress nicely, find a good paying job, obtain higher qualification, etc.). Eventually after he started working, I was dumped for not being good enough as he had a better paying job and was going for degree course (using money from his grandparents).
Initially I found it hard to move on and suffered with severe inferiority complex. It was so bad that I dare not look in the mirror as I was not "presentable" and not good enough for anyone. I also had suicidal thoughts. Fortunately my family was there to support me and walked me out of misery after some time.
One can live life happily even if you are alone, with the "right" one it will make your life a little more happier. This word of advice changed me and I started loving myself, starting with lifestyle changes, outings and activities with family and close friends and also occasional treats to pamper myself. Gradually I built up self-confidence better than before.
It was then I started socialising on a dating site that I met my current bf (now fiance
To all who are still looking for the "one", I would suggest loving yourself as a person first before loving someone else. Don't fall into the trap of diminishing your self-worth to be with someone as it will not be healthy in the long run.
Keep the positive stories coming!
Thank you for sharing.Erm.. Hope this story is an positive inspiration to all.
I was in a r/s for over 7 years with a guy. We started during poly days and stayed together throughout his NS period.
In this r/s, I was never good enough for him to show to his family and friends as I am not "improving" myself (e.g. makeup and dress nicely, find a good paying job, obtain higher qualification, etc.). Eventually after he started working, I was dumped for not being good enough as he had a better paying job and was going for degree course (using money from his grandparents).
Initially I found it hard to move on and suffered with severe inferiority complex. It was so bad that I dare not look in the mirror as I was not "presentable" and not good enough for anyone. I also had suicidal thoughts. Fortunately my family was there to support me and walked me out of misery after some time.
One can live life happily even if you are alone, with the "right" one it will make your life a little more happier. This word of advice changed me and I started loving myself, starting with lifestyle changes, outings and activities with family and close friends and also occasional treats to pamper myself. Gradually I built up self-confidence better than before.
It was then I started socialising on a dating site that I met my current bf (now fiance
To all who are still looking for the "one", I would suggest loving yourself as a person first before loving someone else. Don't fall into the trap of diminishing your self-worth to be with someone as it will not be healthy in the long run.
Keep the positive stories coming!
this is the key, all the struggles over cheating spouse, mainly boils down to this. Values are very different. No relationship will be rosy all the time. What stops us from falling when all else fails? When no one is watching, that hooker is just so hot and sexy, what's stopping the guy. It doesn't just stop at lust and casual paid sex, what about infatuations with colleagues. Especially during biz trips and it gets tougher and lonely. Relationships and emotions can get messy very easily. Again, it is the values and priorities that keep us committed in our relationship.We are both very different. The only similar things we have are our values
Congrats!let me share mine...
I was with my ex for 9 years... we grew up together and went through so much together... I even had to top up his Ez link card during a period of time for him... 3 months before our wedding.. he suddenly confessed that he fell for a girl at his workplace... My world crashed greatly, everything was gone... our new place... wedding... our hopes and dreams.. I always thought that I was the luckiest girl on earth, and he was my first love...
I didnt want to let myself crash, so I signed up with a gym and made many new friends. I picked myself up.
some time later, I met my current fiance... he always puts me first and treats me with respect... We click very well and have the same ideals and beliefs... He is soooo much better than the one who left me for his colleague... we are getting married soon
I feel so silly for thinking that I had been dumped by the best guy on earth...
i wouldnt have met my awesome fiance if I had not moved on...
so we must always stay positive!
Hes pretty much a legend in forums like this.
