the main topic is getting to nowhere anyway.
Fat Cat is likely to divorce his wife, since he whines so much about her.
(Hey! Someone with you daily will gradually forget to appreciate you. But, honestly, i won' appreaciate living with a whiner).
He thinks his gf is great (god knows maybe she IS plotting against him, since she refuse to use a condomn), not forgetting he doesn't really see her daily so she can't see him as a whiner.
I wonder how the gf would be when she becomes the wife though. Maybe Fat Cat would come back to the forum, whining that the gf is using him as an ATM machine, nagging alot at him and calling him useless.
and i wonder if he knows the theory, that expectations changes as one lives.
and that courtship time is always less stressful than marriage life.