"Not sure why i marry her also. I do love her alot before and after marriage.. but after a few years of constant nagging, scolding and belittling by her sort of made me lost loving her.
HB agree with u we need to compromise in a marriage.. but if the guy always the giver how? Wife take and take .. take for granted.. like u owe her.
"1 ) i cook for her in the midnight"
So? Whats the big deal?
- if i ask my wife to cook, she say u got no hands is it? go ocok or go buy lor.. then she turn and sleep or watch her serials.
2 ) i feed her when sick
So? You know she's sick.
- when i sick, she will ask me go see doc by yourself.. and sleep in other room later pass dieases to me.
3 ) i drive 30 minutes just because there is a small insect in the house
- okay i don't drive. if got ants or other insects she will blame me why i always never take out the trash (truth only forgot a few times). Then drag all the ancient history issues out to scold me.
4 ) i spent half of my income on the kid and her. and the kid is not even mine.
- Everything for Kid i pay. House things i pay.. house also i pay. She say her money is hers and my money also hers.
5 ) even there is blackstorm i go buy food for her.
If tiny rain is nothing to you, what's a blackstorm?
- Ok i will do this but she won't appreciate, got one time house left only the small umbrella as the other her parents took it home. So when i go pick her up, she will scold me why never bring big one.. then won't bother to listen to my explaination. when explain, she will say why you never to go more umbrella put at home (ages ago she say why buy so many one is enough liao)...
6 ) everytime there is a conflict i am the one start to apologize first.
You have a part to play in this.
- I don't agree. guy seems to be always the one to apologise even when they wrong.. rIght?
7) i do housework when she is busy.
- i do all the housework. she say she tired"
To above points I just summarised don't wish to waste my breath. You are balless to stand up to your wife and grow together as a couple.
Precisely can't you cook yourself? If you do not like cooking for her, don't cook. Worst to worst Don't eat. What kind of man feeling short-changed over such issues?
When you are sick you can't take care of yourself? As a man I don't think I would need anyone to feed me unless I am bedridden or can't even get up to pee. What about her accompanying you to see a doctor? You can't do it yourself? Does your parents still accompany you to the doc till the day you got married?
Your financial issue should be settled from day one. Either you support or have a common consensus about it. Don't lament now while you are shagging away elsewhere which is already wrong to begin with. And please. Whats with the girl not allow you to use a condom? Even on this wrong moral ground to even start off with, can't you even insist to put on a condom? Than shifting the responsibility to her that she don't want you to use one. Or is your HUGE DICK too big for any condoms?
The rest of the issues stems from you being BALLESS. And yes, WORTHLESS as well. You do not dare to stand up to your wife and who said that guys always apologise? Only balless people does that. And through this, you are feeding to her character. You contributes and encourage your wife to be who she is today and now you are using her character flaws to justify for your adultery.
I am lazy to even explore more into the character of yours from your post in other threads mentioning for BJs and talking about your huge dick when you have an impending problem.
Before you clear up the mess you had a part in, you go around dirtying every ground you step on and claimed that the place is dirty.
Grow a new dick and clear up the mess of your life taking it like a man. And even joining in others to lament in regards of your wife? You are not even a tenth of the man you thought that you were.
So called claiming that you have duty to your wife and daughter? Hell it's disgusting to even read it.
Disclaimer: Above is only meant IF the sob story is even true. Otherwise, just for viewing and my flaming pleasure.