Hi ladies,
Some advise needed. I have tentatively fixed my customary date to be on 19 Sept 2004 ... dinner to be on 20 Sept. As 19 Sept is chinese 6th day of 8th month ... when should the Guo Da Li be??
My mum keeps perstering me cos ppl tell her that Guo Da Li must be at least 8 days before the wedding .... but 8 days before will be in 7th month ... and we can't do it in the 6th month cos my FIL just passed away this year 7th month ... and we wanted to wait for 1 year before we have our wedding ....
Can I do it on the 1st day of 8th month? Anyone knows the rationale of the 8 days? Also, do we need to engage someone to select the date for Guo Da Li ... I engaged someone to select the wedding date for me but the feng shui master didn't provide me with the Guo Da Li date and now I can't seem to locate her anywhere ... lousy service ... so mad ....
Really hope to hear from someone ... cos I am planning to comfirm my wedding banquet by this month =p and I really do not wish to change the date anymore ....
Some advise needed. I have tentatively fixed my customary date to be on 19 Sept 2004 ... dinner to be on 20 Sept. As 19 Sept is chinese 6th day of 8th month ... when should the Guo Da Li be??
My mum keeps perstering me cos ppl tell her that Guo Da Li must be at least 8 days before the wedding .... but 8 days before will be in 7th month ... and we can't do it in the 6th month cos my FIL just passed away this year 7th month ... and we wanted to wait for 1 year before we have our wedding ....
Can I do it on the 1st day of 8th month? Anyone knows the rationale of the 8 days? Also, do we need to engage someone to select the date for Guo Da Li ... I engaged someone to select the wedding date for me but the feng shui master didn't provide me with the Guo Da Li date and now I can't seem to locate her anywhere ... lousy service ... so mad ....
Really hope to hear from someone ... cos I am planning to comfirm my wedding banquet by this month =p and I really do not wish to change the date anymore ....