Hi fashionista diva,
Yea, Four Seasons is extremely strict with perks. But I believe their service and food more than makes up for this. My HTB and I believe that the exceptional service from FS will make our wedding a memorable one. in fact, from one photographer I've met up, he commented that of all the weddings he did, only FS and Regent showed very good service.
So if FS is out for you, what hotels are u considering? When is your AD btw?