depressedsoul2016
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I thought I found a man whom I love and who loves me. However, I was wrong. We got married and moved into our new house. A few days after we got married, I checked his handphone. To my horror, he claimed to be single and exchanged intimate messages with many women over a chat application. On a few occasions, he even asked to meet up with the women to have sex. I confronted him but he denied (not knowing that I already knew about his flings). I was devastated but I was prepared to forgive him (after all I was only married to him for less than a month). I told him to put what had happened behind us and to start afresh. However, I also warned him that I will not forgive him should I find him to be unfaithful subsequently. He was dumbfolded but did not seem to take me seriously. He continued to befriend women through the chat application... young girls, women who are old enough to be his mother, foreigners... you name it, he has it. My bestie encouraged me to confront him and ask him to promise that he will never do it again. I have other friends who encouraged me to leave him. Recently, I discovered he had been fooling around (includes having s*x with strangers and prostitutes) even while we were dating and preparing to get married. I felt like a fool to be kept in the dark. I felt terrible and cried to sleep a few times. This man knew I was upset but he did nothing to salvage our marriage. He denied everything and did not apologise for what he had done. His parents side with him and said he did all these in a moment of folly. Should I forgive him?