Extramarital and happy marriage

Discussion in 'Matters Of The Heart' started by KingSQ, Jul 2, 2018.

  1. KingSQ

    KingSQ New Member

    Hi,

    Is it possible to have extramarital relation but still stay happy in a marriage?

    I have been married for 3 years and recently sex has been reducing to almost nothing (it wasnt that frequent before though). I confronted my wife and she told me that she has no interest in sex. Request for councelling was quickly rejected and always end with fight.

    I still love her and hope to maintain this marriage but on the other hand i also have need.

    Any advice, esp from wives with similar issue will be great.

    Thanks
     


  2. newproject

    newproject Active Member

    Curious how old are you both.

    Did the decline in interest get triggered by child birth etc
     
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  3. ladeelaa

    ladeelaa Member

    As cliche as it is, communication is really the key. You need to remind her that a marriage needs effort from both parties and it is a constant journey. You don't stop your walk together once you've signed the papers. Maybe you can find out if she is going through some issues of her own (eg problems at work, family issues she may not have told you about). Did you try to get her 'in the mood'? Try something different too! Sometimes when things get too routine, it gets really boring and become like a 'just do for the sake of doing' situation.
     
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