Duties of Ah Yees & Brothers on Wedding Day?


ohaiyo

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Sorri Orchid,

Kindly resend to [email protected](mar underscore wai with no spacing.

For me, I've called 4 ah yees, 2 single & 2 married. To me it's fine to call married ladies and like wat ur said, can't find so many single close frenz.
 

binbin

New Member
Dear Orchid, can u send me as well? my email add is [email protected]. Thanks!

btw, eeeerrr....is it possible for u to send me the memory box making instructions i have requested b4 in another thread? Thanks so much!
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appreciated

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Hi Orchid

Can copy n paste on the forum? so tt u don't hv to constantly email too right? n for pple like me who don't hv time to create hotmail a/c.

thks!
 

orchid

New Member
Hi ladies,

Just sent out to the rest...
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Hi Appreciated,

It's 12 pgs of stuff. so don't think i can cut & paste on this thread.
 

orchid

New Member
Hi BEAR & Ohaiyo,

Glad you found it useful!
My relatives saw it when they came to my place and said it looked like a military operation! hahah...
 

shook

New Member
Hihi Orchid

I received your mail . Thx.
I actually got timing problem. My MIL said 11am to 1pm is inauspicious time on my wedding day, so we either stay @ home or outside. I intend to have outdoor photo shooting. Problematic
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Notice the schedule u sent does not have a slot 4 outdoor photo shooting.

Did u have outdoor photo shooting on your actual day?
 

ohaiyo

New Member
Hello Orchid,

Military operation..haha...nope in fact I find it real comprehensive & systematic and indeed great for pple like me who does not know what comes first, what to include and stuff like tat. Wow...but must wake up at 6am...so early ah...
 

knowing

New Member
Hi Orchid
thanks for sharing with us the list
indeed it helps me to save alot of time
to plan & serve as a systematic guide too
Thank you
 

orchid

New Member
Hi Shook,

No, i didn't have outdoor shoot on the actual day.

You can do this:

9am - groom picks up bride
9:30am - leave for groom's place for tea ceremony
10am - tea ceremony at groom's place (eat something)
11am - leave for photoshoot location
11:30am - start photoshoot
1:30pm - end photoshoot, head to bride's home.
2pm - arrive at bride's place for tea ceremony & lunch (you'll be starving by then).

Another thing is that we did the tea ceremony in my home first then my husband's home - to save time. our parents weren't that particular abt the timing.

Hi ohaiyo,

Wake-up time depends on how long the hair dresser takes to do your hair.

In the end I woke up at 7am, hair dresser came at 7:30am. he needed only 1 hr.
 

shook

New Member
Hihi Orchid

Thx 4 your suggestion.

The thing is my mum said we muz go to our love nest. So thot of going 4 outdoor photo shoot fm 11am to 1pm. Then go love nest then go to my mum's hse. By then it will b 2pm. Worried all my helpers will b starved to death by then. My mum said cannot
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let my relatives wait till so late 4 tea ceremony oso.

Told my mum then 1pm go home 4 tea ceremony but I will change to tea dress @ home coz I wanna take outdoor shoot wif wedding gown. Will go love nest after tea ceremony. She said I very mah fang. Already took outdoor shoot 4 studio photo still want to take outdoor photo during actual day.
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Another thing my hubby said his mum won't have catering 4 food. My mum definitely will. So, gotta go home 4 lunch. I v worried of my helpers' stomach.
 
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novlkf22

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hello orchid

thank you for sending me the list. Th list is really useful in helping me to plan my actual day. many thanks once again...
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orchid

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Hi Shook,

You've already had your outdoor shoot?? then why want to take another one? it's going to be hot to death at 1pm and your makeup will surely melt.. hehe..

If you have a dinner at night, have you considered taking the photos at 4 or 5pm after you? ask your hair dresser to come earlier then you can have fresh makeup & hair for the photos. just a suggestion.
 

shook

New Member
Hihi Orchid

I wanna another outdoor shoot bcoz there will b my ah yi n my hubby's brothers taking the photos together. More ppl more fun. The studio outdoor shoot only my hubby n me. Bsides, I have different wedding gown on actual day, not the one I wore during ps.

My mum suggested dat I go Changi airport to take outdoor shoot on the actual day. She said got air-con, not hot
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Your suggestion is gd. I will tell my hubby n discuss wif the photographer to c how it goes. Thx a zillion
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orchid

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Hi Shook,

My friend had a photoshoot before the dinner (abt 5pm). She included her relatives, her helpers (ah yees & brothers). Took the photos around the hotel. It worked out well cos since the relatives were already there, they had not much problems starting on time.

If that's what you intend to do, you'll need to let your hotel banquet coordinator know. they can suggest nice areas and provide ice water for your friends.

The Rest,

Just sent to you
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beibei

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hi orchid,

u wre saying your relatives claimed your list look like military...so meant u actually paste it on the living room??

me really like the detailed list of yours...thanks for sharing..
 

shook

New Member
Hihi Orchid

I have taken photoshoot in the hotel during my ps. So, won't b taking photos there. I intend to go to places which I din go during my outdoor ps coz I felt v deprived during my outdoor ps session.
 

orchid

New Member
Hi beibei,

No, it wasn't pasted on the wall. My coordinator printed it out and circulated to the helpers & my parents. so my relatives got to see it on the actual day when they were kaypo-ing.
 


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