Hi,
We hv been married for a yr plus n are trying to hv a baby but no good news so far. Whenever we hv sex, is like i am always yearning for it and seems that my hubby doesnt hv any urge! Make mi like a thirsty witch, drenching his juice to quench my thirst!
Before marriage, we didnt hv any intimacy at most is just some heavy petting but no intercourse. At least, he is keen on it. After marriage, our frequency is getting lesser n lesser, really make mi very upset.
I hv tried ways n means from wearing sexy lingerie, waxing my gential areas's hair, slowly luring him to be sexually active. YES I made his BRO awake but not him! Telling mi he is tired, but how can he be tired when his bro is so easily aroused? Simply to put it, is he purely just lazy? Or is he suffering from erectile dysfunction?
I hv tok to him many times either person to person, email, writing sweet little love letter or card telling him the importance of intimacy between married couple putting aside having babies issue. Nothing turn out successful.
Many frens n family memebers etc asking mi abt babies issues, a lot of time i am always giving excuses of not free, no time etc.. Thinking whether do i hv conceiving problems, went to do a checkup but i am clear. After sitting down to tink abt it, then i guess is the intimacy problem leading to not conceiving. I am under lots of pressure especially my MIL cos my hubby is the only son n we are alrady not on good terms n now still unable to bear him a grandchild, now really giving mi a hard time to go thru. Does he understand wat kind of pressure i am facing? Whenever i was rejected of love-making, i feel that i am not a perfect lady, thinking that perhaps i dun attract my hubby at all! Feeling that i maybe not slim or pretty enuf to tempt him etc..
HELP!
We hv been married for a yr plus n are trying to hv a baby but no good news so far. Whenever we hv sex, is like i am always yearning for it and seems that my hubby doesnt hv any urge! Make mi like a thirsty witch, drenching his juice to quench my thirst!
Before marriage, we didnt hv any intimacy at most is just some heavy petting but no intercourse. At least, he is keen on it. After marriage, our frequency is getting lesser n lesser, really make mi very upset.
I hv tried ways n means from wearing sexy lingerie, waxing my gential areas's hair, slowly luring him to be sexually active. YES I made his BRO awake but not him! Telling mi he is tired, but how can he be tired when his bro is so easily aroused? Simply to put it, is he purely just lazy? Or is he suffering from erectile dysfunction?
I hv tok to him many times either person to person, email, writing sweet little love letter or card telling him the importance of intimacy between married couple putting aside having babies issue. Nothing turn out successful.
Many frens n family memebers etc asking mi abt babies issues, a lot of time i am always giving excuses of not free, no time etc.. Thinking whether do i hv conceiving problems, went to do a checkup but i am clear. After sitting down to tink abt it, then i guess is the intimacy problem leading to not conceiving. I am under lots of pressure especially my MIL cos my hubby is the only son n we are alrady not on good terms n now still unable to bear him a grandchild, now really giving mi a hard time to go thru. Does he understand wat kind of pressure i am facing? Whenever i was rejected of love-making, i feel that i am not a perfect lady, thinking that perhaps i dun attract my hubby at all! Feeling that i maybe not slim or pretty enuf to tempt him etc..
HELP!