Do you girls' bf go on holidays without you? Mine does - multiple times, and I m i n d. I honestly do mind. I don't understand why would one want to go overseas on their own - no offense to solo travellers. I know some of you would be wondering who is he going with / is he going alone. He say alone, but I can only take his words for what it is, as there is absolutely no way I would or can know if he indeed is going alone, or if there is anyone else. :/ The next question is if he have ask me along to go for holidays. the answer is yes. but circumstances are such that he goes on holidays on impulse, like next day or next week - granted that this is mainly due to his job nature. but this is too short a notice for me to take leave and go on holidays. and i honestly feel that it is quite unreasonable, irrational and impulse of him. i can't just take leave and go, unlike him. We did travel together, but honestly it is all on impulse. like next day is the weekend / public holiday then we go. and i don't really like that it is impulse. want to plan ahead, but job natures is such that it is quite hard to do so. Help pls - I honestly don't know if I am posting this to end this relationship, like this is a deal breaker, to confirm how not good of a guy he is (dump him) or to validate that couples travel together (where got bf/gf travel solo one).