heartbroken_gal
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I thought I have found the one after knowing him for coming 6 years.
HTB this year end, he was loving, caring, understanding and everything looks just perfect to me.
When recently I get to know what he actually did behind my back. for the past years he actually sweet talk to gals on msn (quite a number) and lied that he has no gf to all of them - according to evidence it is dated in 2005, 2006, 2007 etc.)
According to the evidence I have - he is trying to fish for gals. (I feel that if he can find a better gal he will left me for sure)
He always says he loves me and do everything for my own good. But then is this how I should be treated? I didn't do anything wrong nor did I do something evil to hurt him. I'm always there for him when he is up or down.
I spent my weekends over at his house to help him tidy his room, clothes and even in the middle of the night when I was so tired, I still make food for him to eat (baking fish fingers, noodles steaming buns etc...) when he tell me he is hungry.
My parents actually dun allow me to stay over at his place but becoz I wanna help him save petrol and cab fares from travelling North-East to West.
Year 2006 - (my birthday is approaching) he ask one of his gal fren, where can I buy cheap cakes near west? when the gal ask him for who - He got the cheek to say for his gd fren's gf (I was like - JIAN BU DE GUANG)
According to the evidence I have, he has been flirting around in msn without my presence.
(I feel so heartbroken and I have been crying since the day I know the truth just this week)
I feel such a failure, I think somewhere is wrong with me thats why things like that happen on me. I'm really at a lost coz up till now I cannot believe he did this to me.
Best in his friendster, I didn't know he was 20 YEARS OLD now. and he has been adding alot of cute little gals in his frienster. (I caught him and I told him NOT TO ADD ANYMORE before end of March 09) But he still continue (Treating me like transparent) (Well he told me he was betting a meal with one of his friend - should I believe it or not)
He always tell me be careful dun anyhow talk to guys on friendster and on msn they are all bad ones only I (HTB) is the good one and true to me.(I feel like slapping him.)
I dunno what I should do now?
I feel like confronting asap but I cannot tell him now coz he has projects to hand in this week.
(See I still have to think for him - as I dun wan to distract his work and studies)
Should I just flare up or I still have to talk nicely to him?
Is his actions unforgivable?
Should I give him a chance?
HTB this year end, he was loving, caring, understanding and everything looks just perfect to me.
When recently I get to know what he actually did behind my back. for the past years he actually sweet talk to gals on msn (quite a number) and lied that he has no gf to all of them - according to evidence it is dated in 2005, 2006, 2007 etc.)
According to the evidence I have - he is trying to fish for gals. (I feel that if he can find a better gal he will left me for sure)
He always says he loves me and do everything for my own good. But then is this how I should be treated? I didn't do anything wrong nor did I do something evil to hurt him. I'm always there for him when he is up or down.
I spent my weekends over at his house to help him tidy his room, clothes and even in the middle of the night when I was so tired, I still make food for him to eat (baking fish fingers, noodles steaming buns etc...) when he tell me he is hungry.
My parents actually dun allow me to stay over at his place but becoz I wanna help him save petrol and cab fares from travelling North-East to West.
Year 2006 - (my birthday is approaching) he ask one of his gal fren, where can I buy cheap cakes near west? when the gal ask him for who - He got the cheek to say for his gd fren's gf (I was like - JIAN BU DE GUANG)
According to the evidence I have, he has been flirting around in msn without my presence.
(I feel so heartbroken and I have been crying since the day I know the truth just this week)
I feel such a failure, I think somewhere is wrong with me thats why things like that happen on me. I'm really at a lost coz up till now I cannot believe he did this to me.
Best in his friendster, I didn't know he was 20 YEARS OLD now. and he has been adding alot of cute little gals in his frienster. (I caught him and I told him NOT TO ADD ANYMORE before end of March 09) But he still continue (Treating me like transparent) (Well he told me he was betting a meal with one of his friend - should I believe it or not)
He always tell me be careful dun anyhow talk to guys on friendster and on msn they are all bad ones only I (HTB) is the good one and true to me.(I feel like slapping him.)
I dunno what I should do now?
I feel like confronting asap but I cannot tell him now coz he has projects to hand in this week.
(See I still have to think for him - as I dun wan to distract his work and studies)
Should I just flare up or I still have to talk nicely to him?
Is his actions unforgivable?
Should I give him a chance?