dazedconfused
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I am very depressed and unable to sleep as I really suspect my wife is cheating on me. There are some signs shown which led to my suspicions but I am unable to obtain any proof. I have listed the signs below. Appreciate if someone can tell me whether I am being paranoid or I have just cause.
1) Her job function has changed and she is suddenly working extremely long hours sometimes over the weekends. Asked her why and she said her new Department is very busy
2) Keeps spending a lot of time with her colleagues and friends barely any time with me. Goes out with them and comes home quite late
3) See her messaging very often and sometimes late in the night
4) Non existent sex life
5) Not much communication
6) Doesn't want to have a baby with me
I became even more paranoid when I checked her underwear and found a whitish sticky substance. God knows what it is. Her period came one or two days after this discovery. Is this normal?!
I have a strong suspicion the evidence I need is in her phone but I am unable to access it as I do not know her password.
I know I sound very paranoid but its because I love her and feel very sad and not knowing what is going on is driving me crazy. I don't dare to confront her about my suspicions as I am worried she starts hiding it even more and if I even need proof, it will be harder to get.
Really appreciate some advice on what I should do.
(Private Investigators please don't message me, if I really need your services I will look for one)
1) Her job function has changed and she is suddenly working extremely long hours sometimes over the weekends. Asked her why and she said her new Department is very busy
2) Keeps spending a lot of time with her colleagues and friends barely any time with me. Goes out with them and comes home quite late
3) See her messaging very often and sometimes late in the night
4) Non existent sex life
5) Not much communication
6) Doesn't want to have a baby with me
I became even more paranoid when I checked her underwear and found a whitish sticky substance. God knows what it is. Her period came one or two days after this discovery. Is this normal?!
I have a strong suspicion the evidence I need is in her phone but I am unable to access it as I do not know her password.
I know I sound very paranoid but its because I love her and feel very sad and not knowing what is going on is driving me crazy. I don't dare to confront her about my suspicions as I am worried she starts hiding it even more and if I even need proof, it will be harder to get.
Really appreciate some advice on what I should do.
(Private Investigators please don't message me, if I really need your services I will look for one)