Somehow she has choice her bf over me.. To stop my pain further. Aw it affecting my temper, i need sleeping pills to sleep. I have given up and let time take over the course.. I dun know how long i will wait. Maybe till the next gals arrived
u got a long way to go... u should try to brush up on your decision making, and brushen up your thinking. like tat give up liao, n need to take sleeping pills? u were the one who let her go one leh... how abt spending some time kicking yourself first?
Power i dun know... Everyone in my office ia telling me to move on. And it has caused her soo much trouble that she dun know how long can u last in the office. All i want is to give her love but if my love bring her more trouble shouldnt i give up.. Let her have some space and her give choose
she allowed you to kiss her face and your lips wouldn't venture anywhere else. she wanted to go back to her ex, you let her. people asked you to fight, you geared up. others suggested you to stop, you stopped.
But I find that there is really no point to fight on. Since she has already made the choice.
I think the best way is to stop and wait, at the same time keep a look out for other fresh relationship. Keep yourself open to other relationship. Don't waste ur time waiting.
There is definitely someone out there better and ready for you.
I sometimes have this thought: If she loves you and chooses you, then she is the one in your life and you have to hold on to her and love her with all your heart. but if she didn't choose you and doesn't love you as much as the other guy, then she is not the one. Then, you should look for that someone in your life, and not waste your time waiting for something that is not yours. We are getting older each year, not like when we were in secondary school or poly.
if u want to win, then dun be afraid for others to lose...
if u dun want to lose then dun have to try to be nice...
problem with u is that u try to be a gentleman whilst ignoring the fact that u are going after an attached girl. personally i find nothing wrong with that, but why try to be nice and all that whilst doing that?
u are obviously confused abt what u want... so if u ask me, u love yourself more Becos u think that u can maintain courtesy and still win. u overestimated yourself liao...
dun study law, then go into banking line and expect everyone to treat u like a lawyer...
the role u choose will be the role u will be treated for."