Hi Amby,
I hv been considering the fertility checkup after a yr of marriage cos though both of us hv diff working shift schedule,we hv rather frequent unprotected sex but to no good news until now. But becos my hubby rather unsupportive towards it so i put it on hold for few mths while working more "OT" loh...
Btw, how long hv u been married? Perhaps, u wanna to try for at least a yr plus b4 having tis checkup.. sometimes, it really need some luck n effort here..
Then, i try to sit him down to tok abt family planning n happen that my cousins hv 1 mth old baby celebration, so brought him along n he was really excited abt it.. so discuss with him that perhaps, he is ready now so managed to convince him that, even if we are really infertile, at least hv a checkup to prove 1st b4 giving up hope so easily n may hv to think other alternatives of having kids loh... he agreed!
Sorry abt the long story hor.. actually there isnt anyting wrong of doing the checkup, is just another extra stage that couples like mi hv to go thru in order to conceive.. tats all! Most imptly is to discuss with ur hubby, try to convince him and of cos support n encouragement is really much needed here..
I went to polyclinic to get a referral letter which will be much cheaper than going directly to KKH for appt cos got subsidy mah..