hi jane, muahaha, abit dun understand ur logic... i am not comparing one forum to the next... but there are ppl who do BULLSHIT on the NET... regardless whether they r in tis forum or in sbf. i knw a few guys tats visit such forums... they will "contribute" abit to the forum...abit fake here fake there, and they will pass on wat they learn frm others in the forum...
however, tat does not mean they r messing ard behind their wives back...and by havin a sbf acct doesnt mean tat they r being unfaithful.... if they r unfaithful, it will show up in their daily actions... by askin ppl to gif u their SO sbf acct number is disgusting, and offends their SO's privacy... if ppl suspect any unfaithfulness, they shld make their own investigation..not ask u for help....
ps: not to promote sbf...but sbf is not a bad forum...abit of the govt bashing, crazy stuff...of cos the sxx scene is not bad...we can also staart a gal thread there sia....