Hahaha! That wat i thought too.
Am a cathoilc, but still we need to practise this kind of silly traditions. Lucky i have a great parents didn't believe in those silly tradition. Only my FH and his parent that is "pantang".
My FH a non catholic, for his sake i have to give in to it.
Actually heard from that shifu, we can contince to sleep at our bed. Only until when "an chuang" before AD. That no. Nobody can enter into the room after "an chuang", only the bride and groom.
In fact there even more tradition i need to follow. Go out my home at a timing, cannot attend wedding tat close date in front us..bth bth bth! On AD still need a boy to jump ard our bed. Tink of that am so heartpain, Bed so expensive!
I so angry and asked the shifu. If we dun practise this kind of tradition, wat will happen? He can't give me any answer. Gosh.. felt so silly.
My AD is on 22Dec. I have a fren whom a catholic, her church ceremony at 8Dec. I told my FH, u can dun follow me to her church ceremony but i will sure go. Am a CATHOILC and we dun believe in those nonsense.
Ladies,
Wat i felt is, just follow watever they want us to do. Believe those are just letting relatives see see and gossip. If that can make parents happy, just follow loh. No harm also, just very mafan loh. =D