Catholic Brides

madelyn

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thanks andrea

so is it everyone have to create & print their own mass booklet? and kept all the mass booklet after the wedding? or guest to bring home?
 


slog

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Hi Gracie,

I've booked Holy Family church too! When is your big day?
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Can I check with you please if they are using OHP projectors (like St Michael church) or if they still have mass books (and do the mass books contain a wedding mass section?)

My future in-laws go to Holy Family and I'm not familiar with the church ( I got to st Michaels). Thanks so much!

Hi Andrea, could you please send me a copy of the mass booklet too? My email is [email protected]
 

krystal80

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hi slog singapore, mail sent liao =)

madelyn, generally ppl print their own coz not all churches use projectors and powerpoint for their masses =) Usually guests will bring back a copy of the mass booklet but generally there will be some left over...so if u dun wanna waste paper, maybe u can just place a few on the pews and ask your guests to share =)
 

graciie23

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Slog:

Mine's on Oct 25 '08. Not sure about OHP projectors, but some Churches these days use plasma TVs
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I haven't check with the Church sec about the mass booklets, but have got samples from Andrea :p Ours is likely to be a wedding service instead of a mass coz only immediate family attending and mostly non-Catholics. Who's your celebrant? Mine is Father Patrick Goh.


Nec: Thanks for your advice! I'll definitely bring a jacket/sweater/shawl coz I'm scared of the cold.
 

papaya123

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i'm currently wonder if i shld print the mass booklet, or use the projector.... the church requires me to pay $300 for the usage of projector, which is pretty expensive!!
 

papaya123

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i'm budgetting ard $400 for printing. i am wondering if i shld go ahead with printing the mass booklet, so that others can bring home a copy? rather than just using the projector.
 

chanll

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Hi Andrea, my church charges me tat.
$200 to use the chapel and $200 as deposit so if nothing happens or nobody dirties the church then it's refundable.

Hi Anita, OIC. My hubby attended RCIA while Father Richards was in St Annes. He's really good.
 

suwaiwai

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Can anyone recommend a good florist?? Both for church and bouquet deco?

I just met up with one (shall not disclose the name of the company) but after the meeting and all we discussed, she missed out alot of the items I requested for in her quotation!! hiyo I dunno if she was listening to me during the discussion. headache...
 

krystal80

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hey suwaiwai, have you tried the red petals?
i think a no. of brides from this thread have used them before...

what about asking jmi? =P
 

suwaiwai

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Hi Andrea

Ya I've contacted them and tried mia too, but mia's too busy to meet me.. heehee.. btw what is a reasonable budget for floral stuff? Is it possible to work within $800 for both church and bouquet/car/corsage??
 

krystal80

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hi suwaiai...hee hee...
I think $800 should be ok bah..coz it honestly depends on what you get =)

corsage for jiemeis actually you can DIY..it's really easy =)
 

jmi

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Suwaiwai,

If the decor includes the reception area, I guess it's kinda acceptable?

I paid $500 for mine (church entrance, 10 pews, altar, bouquet, posies, cosages, car, stairs railings and railings @ hotel). Didn't want to spend more than $500 for flowers ;p
 

elisawang

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Hi. Can I check, how many hymns will there be if its a service? And could I ask a favour and request for a sample of the mass booklet? TIA.
 

krystal80

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hi love or money, the diff between a wedding mass and service is that mass has communion...service doesn't.

Elisa, you have entrance, offertary, and recessional...(I think)

I can send you a sample of the mass booklet if you like...pls provide email =)
 

jmi

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hi love or money,

my wedding is almost 6 months ago.
Had a variety of flowers:
green cymbidium & white peony for bridal bouquet
green mums for kissing balls for bride's maids & flower gal
green cymbidium for groom
white orchid for parents and page boy
white lilies for church decor & hotel railings
white & green for car decor

Got them from Mia of Blissful Thots which Suwaiwai has been trying to fix and appointment to meet up.
 

love_or_money

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Hi Andrea... how bout the number of readings for a service? is there anyway we can have communion for a service?

Jmi...wow! thats alot of stuff for just $500! what kind of church decor did u do? IHM is charging $400 for just 7 vases of flowers for the church.
 

krystal80

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love or money, there are 2 readings still...as mentioned earlier, a service is a mass without communion. What the priest suggested for my friend who had a service was that he could make an arrangement to give her communion. But she opted to not do that. Perhaps you can check with the priest what he suggests...

Will email you a couple of samples
 

fss

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JMI! My wedding also at St Teresa
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My florist is Mia (blissfulthots) also! Im getting both the church package and basic package (car, corsages, hand bouquet) from her.

Apart from my mum's friend who sponsored (and still gave me excellent service) my printing of programme booklet & church invites,
Mia has the best service & attitude Ive experience for my wedding preps.

My wedding in one week's time! Update you all once its all over! Cant wait!
 

graciie23

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Does anyone know at which point of time during mass or service when the couple needs to light up the unity candle? And where to get the candle? Can it just be plain white and we tie some ribbons on it? Thanks girls!
 

necrosis

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gracie,
yeah, the unity candle is supposed to be plain white.
can decor according to your wishes, but it's gotta be the thicker candle...like 2-3 inches diameter those kind.
then the other 2 candles are the long thin ones.

FSS,
can share what kinda of package mia (blissful thots) gave you?
am looking for florist currently.

any other suggestions welcome
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graciie23

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Thanks nec! Does the Church provide the candle stands? Yup, the unity candle is the thicker one. Btw, when in the duration of the mass or service will we have to light up the unity candle?
 

graciie23

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I just checked with my Church this morning. Lighting of unity candle is not practiced these days in Catholic weddings, in fact it's not encouraged as I was told. So I'm gg to do without to save the trouble.
 

anyta

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hi gals, do you call yr celebrant up for the marriage inquiry session or will he contact you himself when the date gets nearer?

also, do we give ang pow for the celebrant or do you think gifts would be better?
 

papaya123

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hi anita, it will be better for u to call up your celebrant to arrange for the session. the priest may be too tied up to arrange for all these sessions
 

fifteenmay

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Hi Andrea,
Sory for the late reply. my email is [email protected]. please send the sample of the church mass booklet to me. : )

Hi Eml,
i have map of SFX on my wedding website. its at htp://likearose.weddingannouncer.com.
Hope it helps!
 

elfrushi

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Hi Anita

Think giving an ang pow to the celebrant is better, unless u know the celebrant personally, then u know what type of present he will like/use.

cheers
 

anyta

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hi JMI and FSS. Is Mia the church florist? Is it ok if you could share her contact? you can drop me a mail at [email protected] Thanks! How do we arrange for alter boys and how long before your wedding mass will the florist decorate the church - for those getting married/got married at St Anne's.?
 

papaya123

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hi girls... during the church wedding march in, the flower girl and page boy will walk in front of the bride right? will anyone hold our 'train' when we're marching in?
 

esfe

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Hi Andrea,

Can i have a copy of the wedding mass as well?
our email is [email protected]

Also, im really lost.. im a non catholic, HTB is a catholic, im not too sure what to prepare or do for the church wedding? His parish church is St Joseph, hence since St Joseph doesnt hold weddings, we have to hold at the closest church which is st peter and paul. Can any kind souls pls guide me along to the preparations pls?
 

crankset

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Anita,
You shouldn't have to worry about the altar boys, the priest will take care of that. You'll usually have an hour or two before the wedding to doll up the place, time might be tighter on the weekend, especially if it's booked end to end.

papaya,
If you ask me I'd say it's up to you, personally I'd prefer it if my bride goes solo, just the dad and her and the little 'uns if you got 'em, too many people and I feel like I'm waiting for an entourage not my bride, but that's just me, whatever floats your boat, it's your day, do what YOU like.

Hey esfe,
Here's a thought, why not hold it at your parish church since you can't do it at his? Since you're prepared for a wedding service you might as well make it meaningful in some way and do it at YOUR parish.

Get your HTB to get off his ass and talk to the parish priest about having a wedding at such and such a date at the church, the least he could do is take the lead for this portion of your wedding since he should be more comfortable and/or familiar with what needs to be done. The priests are more than willing to walk you through the process and what you guys need to do.

There's the spiritual side and the more mundane prep like caterers. For the spiritual side, the priest will sit both of you down and run through a series of questions to see how prepared you both are for marriage. He'll also do some admin side stuff like checking on your HTB baptism cert. Other factors you need to take note of are if the church has a place onsite where you could hold the post ceremony reception, also things like arranging for the choir and church deco, these two the priest should have a contact he can recommend to you if you have none. That's it off the top of my head, I'm sure there's more that the others can think of. Do let us know what church YOU belong to if you were Catholic, some of us might have gotten married there and can help more specifically.
 

krystal80

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hi esfe, you've got mail. I think you can contact the church secretariat at st peter and paul to find out the process...you might need permission from the parish priest at St Joseph to get married at St peter n paul but best to check with the church secretary =)
 

suwaiwai

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Hi esfe

I agre with Chris, yr HTB should help out! After all I'm assuming the reason why you are getting married in a Catholic church is coz of him/his family right?

To e other brides, sorry I disappeared for so long, my laptop crashed!! But I got it up and running again. Luckily I managed to save all the wedding prep files so phew!!

I've confirmed Mia as my florist. Very impressed with her speed and flexibility and the best part is, her price is very reasonable too. If there are any brides who hasn't confirm their florist, I would recommend her.

Andrea, does SFX have a piano??
 

fss

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Dearie Catholic Brides To Be!

Im back from my Big Day! Henceforth, is the Bigger Days of Marriage to embrace (good times & bad times of course!)

I'll let the pictures do the talking for now...

***Photos are NOT from the professional photographer, they are from a friend!

1) Morning (Bride's Home @ Henderson Cresc - Gate Crashing)
http://photo.issimple.com/local/cm1/index.htm

2) Morning (St Teresa Church - Solemnization)
http://photo.issimple.com/local/cm2/index.htm

3) Night (Meritus Mandarin - Banquet)
http://photo.issimple.com/local/cm3/index.htm

Have Faith! Giving Thanks!
 


fss

New Member
Just wana say if anyone needs any advise, feel free to PM me (i may take a while to reply but i definately will).

On evaluation, we love our partners to bits as they delivered more than we payed for.

Florist (excellent!!!), Gowns & Make Up Artist (billions of compliments), Photographer (pictures perfect!), Videographer (lovely express highlights), Home Buffet, Cards Printing, Church Programme Printing....

Not forgetting each and every one of you here who have lent a listening ear and an advice or two. Your little gestures in the past months meant so much...
 

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