depressed gal, i have almost the same suituation as u.. i got married in june 06.. My fairy tale ended after 1/2 yr later when my ex hb starting to to work.. We quarrel almost everyday for the next 1/2 yr....Someone tell mi that i have to wait till 3 yrs den can divorce.. For the bext 2 yrs, we didnt contact each other.
I went to consult a lawyer , he mention tat i can file for annulment but will cost more ex.. so i call him and tell him abt it. We agree to split cost.. When the lawyer draft out the paper for him to sign, he reject and say he dun have to time to come down n sign.. S0 i have to couried to him .. When he see the paper, he was unhappy with the contents... We quarrel again for tat .. finally when i tot everything is ok , He shot out another problem to mi tat was he has no $$ to pay..A real bastard!!
Whether he pay or not, i will still have to go ahead with the annulment, so i pay the whole legal in full without letting him know..i consult my lawyer how abt the signature part if he dun sign that mean i can go ahead with it..
The lawyer : we send him the doc (as long as 7 days later,there is no oppsition), i can file for annulment...
On 31 August ,i went for court hearing without him... 3 months after the date, no oppsition by the other party, the annulment will be consider as approve.. The court will auto send him the court hearing date and time
2 weeks later, i receive my 1st legal paper.. there is total of 3 copies... By right, one copy of The annulment paper to him, one copy to mi.. I tell my lawyer that i will send him his copy myself.. (by left i receive 2 copies)...The lawyer will only issue 2 true cerified copies and it will need to be countersigned by my lawyer)
If he wan the legal from mi, he need to pay...