Advice on Divorce Lawyers?

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M Kadam

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I am going through Divorce and my lawyer is really good lawyer. Her name is Grace Malathy. She has very good Communication ability. She is perfect in Responsiveness. Quality of service is really great. Value for money is totally worth it. She is really good lawyer and negotiable. Her office is at Mountbatten Square. I would definitely recommend her to anybody. If anybody need more info pls send me SMS @ 85885490. I would love to share more details with you whoever is in need for their bright Future.
 


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skanlaw

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As I read your post I think you are more selective.In singapore there are many good divorce lawyer agencies like aware singapore,ch chan & company and also many more.You can choose best with the help of google.
 
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Anne Saxton

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Choosing the right kind of lawyer becomes very crucial while you are going through a divorce. You will find a lot of lawyers by simply doing some research online. Trust your gut feeling on which divorce lawyer can be the best one for you. Make sure you are clear with your lawyers about the expenses involved in the whole process. Divorce Lawyer from well known firm provides you with top divorce lawyers to manage your divorce cases.
 
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paul takakijan

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Before hiring any of the divorce lawyers you need to make sure that he has enough experience in his respective field. You can ask him how many divorce cases has he handled. You can also consult your state's bar association to hire one of the well known three strikes lawyers or a divorce lawyer.
 
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Shal

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My divorce has just ended after like 1.5 yrs and I had 2 lawyers unfortunately. After so much of research and meeting with some lawyers, finally I settled down with one firm. They had a detailed website for divorce and seem to be expertise. I met Lawyer A at Lawfirm Gl** Ja**** gave me the confident that it will be a smooth process. However, they changed lawyer without even informing me since the start. Then, when i questioned them, they told me they are from the same firm and Lawyer A will still oversee my case but she didn't. So Lawyer B was doing my case but I seem to be doing most of the work like amending the documents to typing new ones. Imagine i am going through an emotional breakdown and yet had to do this. I was stupid and didn't know what to do cos its my 1st time. My lawyer didnt even give me suggestions or guide me thru. I had to struggle my way thru. They even try to overcharge me. And when i refuse to pay, they said they will file in court and let the court decide. But they were not willing to even listen to my explanation. How crude can it get to threaten the client who is going thru a broken marriage ?? I really couldnt take it anymore. My lawyer don't need to be my punching bag or emotional support but surely not a threat to me. And infact, I felt that lawyer B was a good friend if his lawyer. So they were just trying to ambush and get more $$ from both parties. So for my own good, I engaged another lawyer and thank god, I did so. This new lawyer guided me thru and was very professional. Lawyers are not GOD who knows everything but sometimes, based on their experience, they can guide. And we too need to do a little homework. Somehow, after so much of emotional and financial struggle, things got settled. It has sadly come to an end.
Somethings I had learnt and want to share:
1)Divorce is not about who wins or loses. Its about how to settle things in a smooth manner and to be truthful and fair. We will not be jailed to be truthful!!
2) If you feel your lawyer is trying to push you around, pls wake uppppp!!
3) Try mediation. Its one of the best way to resolve. Nothing to be afraid or ashamed to step into court.
4) You had once loved & lived with this person whom you're divorcing. So don't treat his/her like your enemy cos the pain will inflict in u further.
5) It may be difficult to take decisions when you're emotional. And this maybe a rough sea but you can surely sail thru.
 
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life_is

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No one wins in a divorce. If there are children, the children suffer.

Find a lawyer that suits your personality. If you want to fight fight fight, find someone aggressive enough to fight for you. If you want to mediate and solve problems peacefully as much as possible, find one who will try to defuse the situation and negotiate for minimal damage to both parties.
 
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meiji5

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I so badly want to divorce so that I can move on to the next chapter of my life. Unfortunately, have to wait out the MOP of our resale flat. Was thinking of letting the ex buy my shares of the flat, but the eligibility is that I still need to wait for the MOP to be over and only when divorce is finalised then he can buy my shares.

Quite irritated, so many obstacles for a straightforward divorce case. Sigh. Even though I have 11 months to wait out, it's still long for me. Not getting younger with time.
 
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life_is

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meiji5 said:
I so badly want to divorce so that I can move on to the next chapter of my life. Unfortunately, have to wait out the MOP of our resale flat. Was thinking of letting the ex buy my shares of the flat, but the eligibility is that I still need to wait for the MOP to be over and only when divorce is finalised then he can buy my shares.

Quite irritated, so many obstacles for a straightforward divorce case. Sigh. Even though I have 11 months to wait out, it's still long for me. Not getting younger with time.
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He's not 35 yet? No children right? The flat should not be so important anyway. Both can just sell it and move on. The side that keeps the flat usually benefits a lot financially.
 
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meiji5

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life_is said:
He's not 35 yet? No children right? The flat should not be so important anyway. Both can just sell it and move on. The side that keeps the flat usually benefits a lot financially.
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He will turn 35 next year. I can only proceed with divorce papers come 1 Nov. There are no children.
Yes, the flat is not important but he is trying all means to retain it and buy my shares. I don't intend to let him buy my shares.
 
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life_is

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meiji5 said:
He will turn 35 next year. I can only proceed with divorce papers come 1 Nov. There are no children.
Yes, the flat is not important but he is trying all means to retain it and buy my shares. I don't intend to let him buy my shares.
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The party that retains the flat can profit a lot from it. If there are no children it will be harder to keep. Judge will look at the child's needs, doesn't matter if the intention to live in it is real. Ex managed to get her way to profit from the flat by stating that the child needs a home, even though she never lived in it and was merely waiting for mop so she could rent out for money. Her parents both not working and were waiting for the divorce to profit so they did all they could to stir trouble for many years. It's the best retirement plan. So they made sure I could not have a normal marriage. She refused to move in for entire marriage and still managed to convince the judge to let her keep the flat "for the child to stay". Marriage is for profiteering. Don't fall for it.
 
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meiji5

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life_is said:
The party that retains the flat can profit a lot from it. If there are no children it will be harder to keep. Judge will look at the child's needs, doesn't matter if the intention to live in it is real. Ex managed to get her way to profit from the flat by stating that the child needs a home, even though she never lived in it and was merely waiting for mop so she could rent out for money. Her parents both not working and were waiting for the divorce to profit so they did all they could to stir trouble for many years. It's the best retirement plan. So they made sure I could not have a normal marriage. She refused to move in for entire marriage and still managed to convince the judge to let her keep the flat "for the child to stay". Marriage is for profiteering. Don't fall for it.
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Sorry to hear about your previous situation. All I can think about is just to get the divorce settled asap. Then settle with selling the house and then moving on. Am considering if I should go overseas to work as my friend keeps asking me to move to Melbourne. So everything is up in the air and depends on how my divorce will be settled. Oh and unless I do get into a relationship, it would depend on where I will plan to stay and live, Singapore or Australia.
 
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life_is

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meiji5 said:
Sorry to hear about your previous situation. All I can think about is just to get the divorce settled asap. Then settle with selling the house and then moving on. Am considering if I should go overseas to work as my friend keeps asking me to move to Melbourne. So everything is up in the air and depends on how my divorce will be settled. Oh and unless I do get into a relationship, it would depend on where I will plan to stay and live, Singapore or Australia.
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Singapore isn't the place to stay in. Too expensive and full of mercenary people. Dragging a divorce only means donations to lawyers. They are the only ones who benefit. Best to just settle and get it over with if it can't be saved. Mine dragged on until I was completely broke. Now got problems even trying to support parents. At this rate I got nothing to lose and will simply compile a name list to name and shame.
 
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Jasmine83

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Hi lifeforces27,

Sorry to hear about your experience. You should be given the choice to work with a lawyer who is experienced, competent in dealing with divorce cases and also someone who is able to empathize and listen to your case.

In your search for a divorce attorney, you should look for law firms or lawyers with a good reputation in the industry, reading positive reviews will help you to better select a professional lawyer and reduce the chances of engaging ones that you've mentioned.

Some legal firms in Singapore provide free consultation services for the first 20 minutes and or also free first phone call consultation. During the free consultation, the lawyers are likely to cover the main contentious issues you are facing and advise you on further steps you may be able to take. Do look for law firms providing these services before deciding on the divorce lawyer you want to engage with.

I've came across this Singapore legal education portal named Huffe which provides rather good advise on selecting divorce lawyers. You can check it out at https://huffe.com/good-divorce-lawyer-singapore/
 
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jason8

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I consulted Gloria James-Civetta & Co. Got a free 30 minute consultation under no pressure to sign with them. Advice was thorough and friendly in a nice office setting.
You can go to www.gjclaw.com.sg to know about their lawyers and services.
 
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jlim99898

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There are really good divorce lawyers in Singapore. How about I recommend to you this site http://www.godwincampos.com.sg/ my friend hired a lawyer there to win the custody of his children. I was not really during the process but you can tell it has given him comfort knowing he got to talk to his children back.
 
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newbiemom

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My husband had an affair and wanted to divorce me. I begged him not to as we have a young child. But after a while, I realised there is no use staying with a useless man who does not love you, and worse is spending nights and money on another woman. I went to see a few lawyers. The one I chose was the one who my cousin strongly recommended. He is Mr Lim from PKWA LAW (www.sgdivorcelawyer.sg).

Very great authority when he speaks and very kind to me. Very senior lawyer with a big office and many staff.

The one thing he told me which made me really wake up is to make sure that I don't spend the rest of my life seeking revenge. I have moved on, and am happier now. We settled the case after Mr Lim and his lawyers negotiated a good deal for me. I do feel sorry for my child but I tell myself better for him that his mother is happier now instead of being depressed and treated badly by his father.
 
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sj7980

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newbiemom said:
My husband had an affair and wanted to divorce me. I begged him not to as we have a young child. But after a while, I realised there is no use staying with a useless man who does not love you, and worse is spending nights and money on another woman. I went to see a few lawyers. The one I chose was the one who my cousin strongly recommended. He is Mr Lim from PKWA LAW (www.sgdivorcelawyer.sg).

Very great authority when he speaks and very kind to me. Very senior lawyer with a big office and many staff.

The one thing he told me which made me really wake up is to make sure that I don't spend the rest of my life seeking revenge. I have moved on, and am happier now. We settled the case after Mr Lim and his lawyers negotiated a good deal for me. I do feel sorry for my child but I tell myself better for him that his mother is happier now instead of being depressed and treated badly by his father.
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Hi,

I also want to move on. Thinking to engage PKWA too. Saw your feedback is quite good. Hope that can settle asap too...
 
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insecure_me

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Hi all

I need some guidance. I went to the lawyer today and she told me that I can only have joint custody but can get full care & control. Is this true?

Also, she said that the judge will determine the division of matrimonial assets including our personal savings. Does it mean I have to split my money with him too?! Anyone can shed some light? Btw I caught my hub having affair
 
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BobbyMaroony

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insecure_me said:
Hi all

I need some guidance. I went to the lawyer today and she told me that I can only have joint custody but can get full care & control. Is this true?

Also, she said that the judge will determine the division of matrimonial assets including our personal savings. Does it mean I have to split my money with him too?! Anyone can shed some light? Btw I caught my hub having affair
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Singapore judges do not issue full custody unless one of the parents is dangerous to the kids or something.

You will need to declare you personal assets when you divorce. There’s like a thick stack of papers you need to fill. And if you are fighting for maintenance, you will need to provide evidence.
 
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katherineang

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K K Lee Law Corporation - Please don't choose them for your divorce matters.

I engaged her but discharged her midway as I find that she is not protecting my rights at all!
She is not proactive and NOT prompt in replying my queries and even submitted my reply to counter-lawyer a day after the deadline, almost risking my case.

Glad that I chose another lawyer instead.
 
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rip_curl

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Anyone has lawyer to recommend? My Friend suggested this lawyer named Sunita. Her charges is like 350-400/hr

I want to seek advise as to if as a hands on Father, can I fight for custody of my 2 kids? There was nothing wrong with me just that my Wife wants out to lead her life being selfish but yet she wants the kids. She is always hands off all these years and everyone has eyes to see. There was nothing wrong with me.
 
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midihop712

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you should proclaim your own benefits then you separate. There resembles a thick pile of papers you need to fill. and if you are fighting for upkeep, you should give proof.
 
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allycinsg

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NewChapter said:
Yes ,recently
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I see - from your nickname, everything is finalised for you? mind sharing how long does the process usually take? and whether there are any interim milestones/ documents that one can ask for to confirm the divorce is indeed going ahead? or easier to catch out liars?
 
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NewChapter

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Left Final step , my HDB flat. Process took around 4 month uncontested , interim judgement( shld be 1 mth ) to prove the case is ongoing follow by the final judgement 3 mths time after interim is out ).
if you can ,check with the lawyer firm regarding the case ?
 
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natalielove

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If anyone here is still looking for a good family lawyer, I would recommend Mr *************. He helped us a while back with a custody case. Very professional.
 
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