Hi all.. just wanna seek some advice from the people here.. hopefully we'll feel less burden. My fiancé and I are paying half half for the wedding and housing cost together on our own. My future PIL doesn't have much to support us financially which is ok, however the cost for Guo Da Li like Pin Jin and Si Dian Jin all other stuff etc have to be fork out by my fiancé as well. This portion further burdens him. I'm not sure it's a good idea to tell my parents about the their financial situation as my fiancé family is afraid my parents will look down on them etc. I won't want my parents to feel sad or worry as well. On other note if we don't we are quite stressful now. Is this a normal process for wedding couples? Just a ranting space..