Advice for annulment please...

I got married to my wife for 3 months and we have a flat together, but without any kids. We dated for about 1 year plus before getting married.

After marriage and staying together, I realised that she is a little psychotic. Here are the symptoms that I realised.

1. She thinks that everyone wants to harm her, even me, as her husband

2. She is overly obsessed with cleanliness. She keeps thinking that everyone around her is dirty, except herself.

3. She has an anger management problem. She can start throwing things around when she is angry. She even scratched me once.

My mum-in-law also notices such symptoms from her and we are thinking of bringing her to a psychiatric for assessment but she says that there is nothing wrong with her and does not want to go.

Both of us do not sleep in the same room because she claims that I am dirty for no reason. She is also afraid of me seeing her without any clothes on when I am her husband.

I am really getting sick of staying together with her and is really thinking of annulling the marriage using non-consumation of marriage.

My questions are as followed.

1. If I go to a lawyer firm for annulling of the marriage and if she agrees to it, do we still need to prove to the judge that we did not consume our marriage?

2. Do we need to sell the flat back to HDB or can I ask my brother to buy over the house?

I have been a responsible husband. I paid for all the bills in the house and even give her a monthly allowance. I do not know what I have done wrong to warrant such a marriage in my life. I am really very sad....
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Very sad guy,

To answer your questions,
1. I dun think there is any way to prove medically that someone is a virgin even up to today. So how would/can the judge require proof that there is no consummation of marriage? Anyway, the answer to your question is: No need to prove, it is based on both parties' words given to the court.

2. I think there is a 5 or 10yr ruling by HDB depending on whether yours is a resale or new HDB flat. Please go to HDB website to check for the latest ruling. The information in HDB website will definitely be the most accurate and reliable compared to what forummers can provide you here.
 
Based on what you wrote abt her, it is a pity that you think that you are actually a responsible husband.
Dated for 1 year plus, and she only has had these symptoms after marriage? Or that, you didn't bother to know her better?

Honestly, she needs professional help.... it might be her emotional state (due to recent/past events?). As a so-called 'responsible guy' in this 3-month marriage, why don't you further help her to seek professional help? And, i believe you need some time to convince her that she needs it.... can you?
 

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