Hi Judy,
We are sorry that your account was not reactivated in a timely manner. As I've checked with the moderators, the last e-mail correspondence was made on 26 Jan. It was very close to the Lunar New Year holidays and some of my colleagues are already on leave and that was why your account was not reactivated over the holidays. When we started work again last week, some of us were swamped by the work and the deadlines that were approaching.
After seeing your message, I've checked with the relevant moderator and your account has been reactivated immediately. I would appreciate that you do not jump to conclusions and make the unnecessary assumptions. We dedicate ourselves to provide a free service for genuine wedding couples and we worked very very hard to continue to do so. Your comments had been hurtful and discouraging. A simple e-mail to me or the moderator would have been sufficient and we would have immediately reactivate your account since it was ready for reactivation.
Also, it wasn't necessary to post so many messages in the forum as I can only type so fast to respond to your messages.
We have replied in a few occassions to prior queries of other users where we explained that due to our limited resources and to run the forum on the lowest cost possible and due to our past experiences, it was best to suspend the account first without prior warning. Many times, a prior warning only serves to alert the account owner to post more messages as the earlier messages have been removed by us. It is because of this, we have no choice but to stop sending prior warning e-mails.
Yes, you can see people advertising here everyday because many times, they are abusing the forum. We have to dedicate resources just to remove the messages. I hope you can now see why our resources are limited.
In any of our e-mail correspondences to you, we've never suggested that you become our advertiser because that is not our intention. We have never suggested that you should pay us a fee. We have explained to you why your message was removed and account suspended.
For the dictionary defninition of "advertise", please click
here.
In general, any attempt to generate a continued source of income by promoting a product, business or servce, it is considered advertising.
Please feel free to e-mail me or post your message here if you have any further queries. Thank you.
Regards,
Chin Leng.