sometimes it's the local mentality that gets to me... pple acting like they have no choice, then intentionally doing something in order to 'get caught' in it - basically entrapping themselves wilfully...
and then they cry father cry mother and want somebody to do abt it.
this is life, we're all adults able to make choices... where we walk, what we eat, where we live, what we do...
for me i smoke... i dun do it in front of my kids, nor in my house, nor in my own car alone... i do it at designated places, and places which may be grey but without other pple around me. half the time i walk away as far from pple as possible... except dining areas where smoking is allowed... if it happens to be next to non-smoking tables, i'll make the effort not to light up Even if i have the right to - in my designated smoking table. not becos i'm ashamed, but becos i care that pple may not like it... i think i've earned my right to keep to my choice.
to be hunted down, to be pushed to the corners... is tough... but i guess considering it's a social ill, i'll still be able to swallow and move away.
What some of u should realise is... u should not lump every smoker together. u may have built your "i hate smokers" mentality from a few incidents rather than everytime. not many pple notice when pple smoke in designated areas and start liking smokers...
the same kind of attitude extends towards PRC-ladies, towards menial foreign workers, towards MILs even.
it is within our means to see where pple are coming from... and we have the maturity to see it.
it's the same reason why i stopped replying to May when i realise that she is not about to be discursive not bother to listen, for this thread it's been Bang Bang Bang... there can be all sorts of denials, but it's not gonna be hard to make my decision and call and decide that in this thread, it's gonna get nowhere.
if a person goes to an election rally hating that particular political party... he is not there to listen nor have an open mind... but to try to catch and cause disruption.