hi snowbell i agreed marriage involves 2 families but ultimately its still depend on you and your hubby on how you want the family to be brought together ma....anyway the most important is that don't let others affect us...hehe
i dunno why but i keep worrying..giving myself unnecessary stress..
firstly i worry my friends dun reply to my SMS to confirm their attendance.
now i worry they mistken my wedding is buffet and give me AP that is lesser money..
oh my god...what am i doing..how to stop worrying?
they all already reply me they coming or not..so RSVP is done.
like i say, now i worry they mistaken my wedding lunch as buffet and give smaller AP.
my cousin suggest that I sms and give them friendly reminder of my wedding lunch..and said "we have prepare a sumptous 9 course lunch " for you...etc..
wat u all think? is it very cheapskate?
hi cynthia.. to me it sounds ok.. not sure of the rest liao.. 'cos tht's one way to inform pple tht it's not a buffet but a wedding lunch lor..
well if they come wif AP wif lesser $ still better than mine.. i invited my frens to my ROM, ended up oni one of them gave me present for my ROM.. the rest came empty handed.. come juz for the lunch.. :S
kat.. ya lor.. like wht cynthia said.. it's really my luck!!! sigh.. tht's y i tell my hb, his frens so gd.. all gave him presents.. oni my all eat sxxx one.. haha sorrie too angry wif them 'cos i always treat them s my gd frens.. ended up all come empty handed.. sigh.. lucky din invite alot..
tell you something frankly..
if i know this couple going to have customery after their ROM, then i will not attend their ROM. because i dun wan to end up giving them AP 2 times.. unless super close one.
for those will ROM and NO customery, then the AP for them is equivalent to banquet price even its just buffet.
tired tired... 13more days to my engagement..after that i rest my case... my biggest concern is my RSVP list..afraid ppl last minute durn turn up...but now, i am more or less prepared for such things to happened. prepared for the worst..LOST $.. or those ppl who come assume its buffet and give less $
i m getting stressed again sigh.. to thk tht now my fam din nag n nag abt $.. i have to rush to finish my oct mth end closing n also to prepare for the yearly stock take.. n it happens right after my wedding.. wonder y tis pple r so cunning n so cruel.. cant even let me enjoy my wedding n honeymoon peacefully...
my coll was telling me.. i m lucky enuff tht they din ask me to cancel my honeymoon to come back for the stock take.. sigh..
at home, i cant even turn on my pc n watch tv.. 'cos my little nephew will come n switch off the tv.. like wht my hb said.. i m like a prisoner in my own hse..
really have the urge of tendering my resignation now.. n admit myself into IMH.. can feel myself gg into depression n gg crazy soon..
mayb i shd really go n reserve myself a bed in IMH haha
i understand how you feel. during my previous engagement, i was forced to do stock take on my engagement day itself.
somemore they only notify us the stock date 4 days in advance which i already book everything.my manager is kind enough to let me go back by 1pm and my engagement dinner start at 7pm.
she actually wanted me to stay over for OT...until i told her i am getting engaged in evening. that day is SATURDAY.
ya man!!! wonder y all tis pple r so heartless.. i m not treated the same s the rest of my coll re marriage leave.. it's fine.. i already open n close one eye.. now dun even let me have peace for my wedding n honeymoon..
imagine my other coll can claim the entire of her honeymoon.. whilst i oni have 3 days of marriage leave.. sigh..
My wedding is coming sunday 11-11-2007. Oh gosh so nervous now. Yesterday SMS my friends to remind them on the coming sunday...Guess what! Some never reply although they had promise me to come! Now super stress tat they will FLY me KITE last mintue.
I think you shld ren for another 2 more months to the year end bonus then quit lei. Now year end liao quit very not worth one. Just do ur best and hack care abt those heartless ppl at your work place. If they can't be understanding dun care abt them ba.Of cos we are responsible ppl.. just do your best in your area lar..i know it is very stressful. Tell urself u gonna leave liao so if those can dun borther shld also dun borther. Hack Care.
I always keep telling my Hubby i m going IMH soon too...cos he is quite RELAX kind..everything also..nevermind..later~~..from the start i have to plan and organise everything and think of all the details. Somemore need to juggle btw busy work deadline and housework lei...wau lau will KI SIAO one lei!
hi twinkle.. thanks for the encouragement.. i been saying i wanna quit till now it's been so many yrs liao.. doubt i will b able to get a new job.. haha if not for the $ i doubt i can stay on here for so long
ya lor.. my hb also the bo chup type lor.. everything also wait till last min.. sigh.. mayb all or most guys r like tht lor..
re housework.. we shd get the guys to help out lor.. else everything we do ourselves really can go crazy n go IMH..
twinkle.. if u go IMH, dun forget to come find me leh haha let's b neighbours there so tht we wun b bored haha
ya man... 'cos of my ROM n wedding.. makes me know who i shd continue to keep in touch n who not to keep in touch.. somehow i feel it's oni after i sent out the cards.. tht they start telling me they wun b coming.. so meaning it might b due to the venue tht tht's y they pull out fr coming.. mayb too x tht's y they dun wanna come? tht's wht i speculated at least for my case.. sigh.. sad hor..
Hi cynthia this room should not be too noisy coz its a room for relaxed..hehehe...so how is everyone's preparation liao..mine is this coming Sunday..Just confirmed the guests list..aiyooo its very normal that some will fly kite la...wat to do lei..have to bite our teeth and bear it lor..but i have an overseas friend who really make me feel touched....he already told me in advance that he could not make it for my wedding but last sunday he all the way from msia (10hours coach) come to sg to meet me and pass me the wedding gift...i was like...so touched...hehehe...