hi everybody, yup, haven't posted in a while... have been keeping extra busy lately. have wanted to hear yr opinions though...
over the last week or so, my mil has continued w 'harassing' her son - you know, the phone-calling, crying, complaining, etc... the usual..
the other nite, she called my hubby up in the middle of the nite (remember she's just in the next room), to ask him to come out to help her paste a medicated plaster.
anyway, to a point my hb got fed up & told her that she wants him to commit suicide instead issit? she simply told him that if he dies, she'll die with him... which my hubby doubts.
he told me that even if he dies, she won't commit suicide, esp now that she's gotten him to draw up his will, she has nothing to lose. so guess all our earlier ideas abt my hubby threatening suicide won't work in this case.
i haven't found a plc to move yet, have been keeping an eye out in the meantime. initially my hb wanted to move out too, but suddenly my mil tells him that she wants to make peace. and naturally, my hb comes back & tries to persuade me not to move after all.
i'm very suspicious, & not quite certain of what games she wants to play this time. bearing in mind that after so many months of complaining & crying on her end, after all that she's said & done, she suddenly claims to want to make peace?? she's not apologizing for anything, she still thinks she's right, and i'm very wary of a repeat episode.
especially since in the same conversation that she told my hb she wants peace, she also told him "you'd better not have children, later u use the children to force me out of the house".
what do u think? i personally would prefer to continue w my plans of moving out. i really can't stand her tantrums any longer, and i know this episode will not be the last.
though she says to my hb she wants peace, she still glares at me when i leave the house in the mornings. i can't bear to call her 'mum' cos i can't imagine any mother acting as selfishly as she does. i admit i feel disgusted to call her 'mum'.
would appreciate any comments