Green & pink cloud,
If u had seen my 1st post, they alredi shifted into my hse. Tat was late 2007. Was tryin 2 tell my story bit by bit. Nw they stil hapily stayin & e conditions of my flat is deterioting each day. My MIL is a violent monster & dun do much hsewrk & e whole clan messed up & spoilt much of my stuffs alredi. Almost evry wk sure got smethin hapen. U wun dare 2 imagine wat a big mess it is.
When i noe my hus 9yrs ago, i was always obeyin 2 wat she wan fr me & asked my then bf to be filial to her (cos my hus veri lazy). Thus she was impressed by me & noe i always "listen" to her. She told others tat i was her 'DIL' even thog we aint married yet. Pampered me alot n She gave me diamond jewelleries & etc. Bt after tat i returned 2 her coz i scared to lose em. All these hapen when i was tryin 2 be a gd DIL. Tats y she climbed all ovr my head & took ovr my role as wife, mother & mistress of e hse. She took my bb away to sleep w her, cared & played w him when i was on maternity leave. I dun get much chance to get near him. i cried almost evrydy. Possessive coz he was a gd boy. As if my responsibility is to bear her a grandson & tats it.
After e initial few mths of them stayin w me, i told my hus tat i had enu & he beter tell his mum to move out. She got extremely upset & called up my mum & said all kinds of offensive stuffs tat u wun imagine of. As if my mum offended her??? Its btw me & her, y shd she terriorise my mum & bullied her?? Actuali she intended to call my mum to oomplain abt me bt then she realised tat my mum does nt agreed w wat she said. My poor mum. She cursed my mum all e way non-stop & my mum had 2 hang up e call 2 stop. Made her so upset. Eg of wat she said is: 1) "Me & my hus have very good s_ _ life, you envious of me ah!" 2) "Your daughter will get her cpf back" - indicate tat she will get her son to divorce me & flat will be sold. Kept arguing w my mum nonstop. Then after tat she called me. Gues wat was e opening sentence? "You are a stinky bad apple!"...then cursed n cursed nonstop & i kept cryin nonstop in public as i was outside. She was reli out of her mind & sayin all kinds of terrible words fr her mouth. She always misunderstood ppl & accused ppl of gg against her. Terror. i reli got e shock of my life. I tot tat was it...bt it din end.
When i got hm in e evening, i saw my clothes bein threw onto my baby's cotbed. Then ard MidNite as i was inside my bedrm w my hus, she suddenly charged into my rm swinging my door so extremely hard to e wall until both of us jumped up coz so loud. Then she screamed loudly "You stinky bad apple! Dun u dare 2 throw my things out of my hse!" I was tinkin to myself...who wil wana touch her filty things? Then after tat my hus leaded her out to protect me bt she kept screaming askin me nt 2 be a mousy & shd cme out & face her. I did and sat dwn in e dining area w FIL who was drowning himself w beer (evrynite). Then she grabbed a knife & hit my tiles, my countertop, then kept slashing my sofa violently. Then threatening nonstop. She rattled nonstop for a long time till wee hrs screaming loudly. No1 dare to call police. Lastly, she said she is a Cinderella & i m e evil MIL/daughter. Haiz...i tot it shd be e opposite?
After e whole terrible incident, i had nitemares of her frequently till today.
Anyway, since young she has been quite a bad tempered, violent woman according to her sis & my hus. Imagine, my FIL was also attacked by her using a scissor & slashed his neck. He bled so much & went to e hosp. The wound was veri suspicious & police was alerted. Bt FIL defended MIL & said he was accidently hurted by smethin.
Evry1 is used to her violent acts alredi. She frequently vented her anger. My 2nd BIL is similar to her. He violently slapped his exgf when she stayed at my plc. These ppl r scary. Tis BIL stole alot of my cash fr my locked drawers. Sneaked into my rm many times even when i was asleep too. Ever took drugs & etc. Stole alot of my stuffs. Abt my FIL, he has to drink alcohol evrynite to numb himself. He & MIL dun reli tok evrsinc they were divorced. Dun ask me y they stil stayin 2geter for so long. Complicated. Lastly, abt my 2nd BIL, he is adopted. He is e onli normal person in e hse.
