Personally I dun believe in counter offers. I think if the co value its pple enough, dun even need to wait for this to happen. Unfortunately I haven't come across a co that willingly and automatically rewards deserving staff before they talk about leaving. For me, so long as I feel there's no prospect, I'm not learning or growing further, I will leave regardless of counter offer. Anyway, how much more can they top the other job offer you find from outside? Double it?? When I said I'm quitting from my last job, my ex co gave me a miserly 11% increment, which is more than double the usual for the rest of the staff. But that's not even trying to counter offer the nearly 40% more the other co is offering me. My philosophy is when you decide to go, it's when you really have made up your mind.. "hao ma bu chi hui tou chao". But that's just me lah.. I will make a decision and stick by it.