Benjamin Franklin said, “Those things that hurt, instruct.â€
Yanni, it's understandable that u feel upset and unjustified. it's a phase u have to go through. if u find inner strength one day, u'll understand that your happiness is not dictated by others. u can be self-reliant - spiritual, mental, material...it is a self-enlarging experience.
it doesnt matter whether the girl is with yr ex for money or not, for all u know, yr ex could be with her for fun. whatever reason it is, dont brood over it. at least u know he has roving eyes and he's not ready to settle down. isnt it better to find out now than later? if he comes back one day, think twice abt giving him a chance. ultimately, it’s based on yr own assessment and how much u are willing to risk it.
if yr future bf drives a car lesser than a BM, will there be a brewing resentment in u? Or would u even consider him in the 1st place? my point is don’t compare. a man who loves u wholeheartedly & stands by u is what really matters.