Thanks wintumnsky for the suggestion =)
Hmmm, they consulted someone whom they rely very much on to calculate on the dates. But this guy is not working as a geomancer for a living. Is just that they trust him a lot.
I thought of seeking for a professional geomancer (to shut them up), any idea where can i look for one? Understand that the Fu Lu Shou complex has a lot..and because i'm a Christian, i know nuts about all these, i have no idea how to go about doing it..
I was also telling my bf to ask the geomancer if there's anything we can do to lesson the xiong part..he say the guy don't know about this...-_-'...
Anyway, the latest date that the dad gave us is to have customary on 28 Nov 2011 and Dinner on 3 Dec 2011. To me, i feel that it's abit weird having to crash gate on a Monday morning?!