simplyme,
my friend who did her solemnisation b4 e dinner had an individual card-size invite which she slot inside e wedding card.
then she smsed us saying, she will like to invite us to e solemnisation. and to appreciate if we are early so tt can start on time. it somehow gives me e feeling of being exclusive like only her close friends/relatives are invited to e solemnisation. and i made effort to be early to show support.
another friend state "solemnisation begins at 7pm sharp. pls be punctual." aft e solemnisation, dinner begins immediately. and she also smsed us to tell us to be early for e solemnisation.