kaiying> sorry sala i kept thinking of HK. haha!
if your family is not teochew, then no need si dian jin. just some jewellery (bracelets/necklace) should be ok de. si dian jin is supposed to be prepared by guys side ba...i think can discuss with your hubby and see how.
loewe> wah, luckily our parents never insist must buy gold lo, if not cham. the jewellery will end up costing more than the banquet itself! haha.
your hubby paid or your MIL paid? my bf paid, i help him save $$ by getting a super cheap one. LOL.
ya, the gold price keep going up. when i was buying my jewellery, just ask for fun...gold price was like $63/g. so it will just keep increasing de..